by "Violet Aura," a Psychic Advisor on Keen*

You are awaiting the arrival of your soul mate and your dream relationship. When will this mystery lover arrive? The person who will sweep you off of your feet and make your heart flutter will also have you losing sleep thinking about all the wonderful things you are going to share! Why is it taking so long?

Reflect back on the times in your life when you achieved something you really wanted. It was so important to you that failure was not an option. Nothing, no matter what the struggle, was as important as accomplishing what you set out to do. And you did it!

Stop Dreaming About Your Dream Relationship!

Anything you want to attain is not going to be handed to you. Just like your other accomplishments, it is up to you to create it. If an ideal partner is what you want in your life, you will need to put into play the necessary elements for magnetizing this perfect person into the material world. Clarify for yourself what you really want and make it happen. How?

Are you focusing on your career, paying bills, keeping the house clean, taking care of others and giving little focus or attention towards creating a relationship? Are you hoping that one will just fall out of the sky? Under these conditions, the probability that you will succeed in even recognizing or glimpsing a potential relationship is quite minimal.

• If making room for a relationship is at the bottom of your priority list, then your dream relationship will remain a lower priority in your life and will arrive later than sooner.
• If you are sitting behind a desk dreaming, hoping and praying for love to come into your life, it probably won't arrive until you go out and meet potential partners.
• If your heart is still aching over a relationship that is gone, you cannot move forward until you let go.

*From the Blog of "Violet Aura," a Psychic Advisor on Keen