From the blog of Kayyla – Psychic Advisor on Keen

Throw away that "wish list" for attracting the ideal mate and settle into knowing that there is a plan in place that may need a bit of your intention and attention to bring your soul mate to your door.

Explore your heart
The link with your soul mate is already established in a mysterious signature at the heart of your spirit.  If others are crowding the space, they are blocking the synergy that will bring you together. Let go of the grief, attachments and resentments that are left over from your previous relationships through forgiveness. The power of forgiveness will free your heart to love again.

Throw out your wish list for the perfect mate
Create a list of your own positive qualities, the things you think you can offer your soul mate. This will help you shed unrealistic expectations and welcome the special soul you are meant to be with. You will be rewarded when you change your perspective from an empty heart waiting to be filled, to a full heart that is ready to give.

Let go of your conditioning
What worked for your parents' relationship, may not work for you. Take inventory of the beliefs you have inherited, keep what is true to you and discard the rest. The work you do now will benefit your relationship later on.

Steer your life goals towards your higher purpose
Soul mates often have a higher purpose to serve humanity together. They walk on parallel paths developing their unique talents until it is time to be brought together. Don’t be caught waiting in the wings while your soul mate is trying to find you.

Honor the plan that is in place, but understand that it could change
Plans have a way of falling apart or steering you on a different course. By understanding that your destiny is in the making, and that it needs your intention and action to make it happen, you are more likely to unite with your soul mate.

Journal your dreams
Dreams can sometimes hold important information about your soul mate and can even announce that a reunion is being divinely timed. If you have had a dream lover who waltzed into your dream, greet each day with eager expectation and don't fail to recognize them when they appear in your life.

Recognize the signs
Soul mates are brought together through a series of serendipitous and meaningful events. Be aware of your intuition and take that walk in the park or go on that vacation -- this can create a serendipitous meeting that will seem like it was meant-to-be.