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Love & Relationships » Drugs...good or bad?


Friday, November 6, 2009 23:50 PST

Hi,
I've done my share of drugs - NEVER SHOT UP - and for the most part I've felt drugs have helped free my mind.
If it hadn't beeen for pot, I would still hate my parents for not loving me when I needed them to love me, when I was a child.
If it hadn't been for pot, my mind would never have slowed down enough to enjoy the simple things in life, and see how simple things can be.
If it hadn't been for smoking big doobies, I don't think I would've learnt to appreciate music.

Mushrooms, Acid and Extacy allowed me to open my heart, and see into the hearts of others.
I understood the drama that we create, and worked with it.

So is that bad?

I still smoke pot, but yearn for more spiritual awakenings, yet my life is so cold.

Does anyone else miss the carefree days?

thanks

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Saturday, November 7, 2009 15:39 PST

well it seems like alot of drug users are from bad familys, BUT I am the exception, the only drug ive ever done is pot and nothing more, and i had a very very tough childhood growing up, i was so depressed i thought about killing my self alot, and other people, i was indeed the quiet scary kid back then, but nobody ever knew that cause i seemed like everything was fine when it wasnt, and also all my child hood friends went into pot around 13, which got me to try it when i was 13 to like 18 ive only done pot 50 times maybe(peer pressure) cause they know i didnt do it and didnt want to hurt my parents, all i can say is that i dont understand drug users, it seems like they are so weak, cause when they have a problem they cant deal with so they have to use drugs, alot but not all of my friends have gone into shrooms,Coke, and shooting heroine, which i might add that they all have issues that they run away from when using drugs, and about 90% of my friends have parents that are divorced, or dont pay attention to them enough, so they use? does that not seem like they are weak?

ive had a worse childhood then im sure all of my firends and yet i sit here not using drugs, but yes i am more screwed up more than them cause i faced my problems head on, and all my friends come to me when they need something cause im sure they can see how strong i am mentally and phyiscally but not emotionally, cause i care too much about my friends and try to help them anyway i can, but yes sometimes when im mad or depressed, i get urge to be self destructive, and go get drunk(thats my drug of choice) but still i dont cause i deal with it.

im sorry if im not being helpful and i sound like a major ******** right now but i had to sit here and see my friends throw there lives away when it wasnt that bad, everything that you think that you couldnt have learned without pot, YOU COULD HAVE LEARNED BY YOURSELF, i did and many other people do also, the reason your minds slowed down now is because you have killed brain cells, (trust me 2 friends of mine have smoked themselves retarded i swear) and a few friends on mine that are girls even smoked pot when they were pregnant,.

jesus i just realized what i wrote, and im sorry if your angry, but what i just typed is what i really need to say to my friends to maybe help them get their lives turned around cause i havent said anything over the years, so i guess i kinda took it out on you, so sorry again, im always very nice on these forums but the drugs topic struck me the wrong way, why do you still smoke pot? its not addicting well yeah it is for some people, is there something your running away from? or you smoke to take phyiscal pain away?




Saturday, November 7, 2009 16:12 PST

all things are good in moderration, pot can only get you so far, and after awhile she really only brings you down. It;s going through the motions of smoking that keep me at it now, not the high.

drugs can open you to your spiritual journey, but after your open now you must turn to study. also when you have children anything more than pot and maybe even pot is playing with fire.




Saturday, November 7, 2009 17:38 PST

No way! I can't say drug use at all is from bad families. I no longer smoke pot (I did as a teen) but it certainly awakened me more spiritually.
If it helps you "connect" with the spiritual world and it does not bother you then there is nothing wrong with it in my opinion.
I am not against Pot use (I would use the other word but they may blank it out)
Keep with it my friend. It brings no harm, anyone who is against it does not understand it




Saturday, November 7, 2009 19:41 PST

but like it or not,,,,,,, pot IS a gateway drug, it starts off pot then the high isnt good enough then alot of people move on the something stronger(which alot of my friends ended up doin) so i know this first hand and this is why i might seem like im being a jerk right now but i lost alot of friends cause of there stupid choices, and i tried to help them sooo much, but then after a while i realized that im not a super hero and i cant save someone that doesnt wanna be helped, i have listened to my friends complain how when there not high that they get depressed cause they have to deal with there issues, brothers death, parents not caring,parents being divorced, all but ONE friend of mine had a broken family, and he still does pot, i just dont get it i geuss, i think drugs is the easy way out from your problems, everytime i did pot, it didnt get me anywhere lol it makes you hungry,happy,sleepy thats it lol




Saturday, November 7, 2009 21:18 PST

pot is not a gateway drug. thats propaganda. Also not everyone does drugs to get away from their problems some of us experiment to experience. Iv tried em all, and I can honestly say that I dont regret it. I am sorry that all of your friends seem to have turned into addicts...You seem young so I am sure that they are too, hopefully they will get over it when they move past the teen angst stage. I spent atleast six years of my life smoking weed everyday, now that I have a child I get stoned when I have time maybe once every two weeks late at night. It's nice...something like nostalgia maybe...I will probably always identify with it! "I love you sweet leaf" lol

to quote you chevelle, I dont want to sound like a jerk but you seem a little "rigid bud!" maybe you should try to open your mind a little...you dont know it all yet, not even close! : - )
Pot is not for everybody, but you shouldnt judge.




Saturday, November 7, 2009 22:01 PST

i know that drugs doesnt make you a bad person, my friends are good people, but ugh you know it gets kinda annoying when they all come to me cause im the only friend of theirs that is "clean" and im the one that has to make them not go to jail, and they steal from there friends to feed there "habit" they never stole from me but other friends, and im 21 , 22 in Dec, and i do have a very open mind about alot of things, but drugs one that hits me hard, cause all the **** i went through i should have been an addict too and i still think that maybe one day ill be an alcholic but honestly the only thing that kept me from that is my video games,(yes im a video game nerd as well) but that saved my life in my eyes, cause i could escape and be someone completely different than myself, the hero for once instead of being a nobody that is depressed,, the only mind altering substance ive used is salvia and that is legal! lol, yes i dont regret doing pot and stuff cause ive learned, and i know when i have kids one day that ill be able to tell if they are doing something, i dont get bored very easily, but my friends were always bored cause they had no hobbies, which i think helped them to experiment alot,

i usually the nicest guy you'll ever meet, but when i feel so strongly about something, and get angry about it, i can be very arrogant, almost cocky and think im untouchable, i do have a very bad dark side that i wouldnt wish on my worst enemy,(picture the hulk) plus theres alot of stuff going on in my life at the moment so i sound like a jerk right now, sorry lol and another thing i ask my friends how they gonna react if their kid does drugs? and they say oh HEII NO id kick there butt, a bit hypocritical do you think? i wont mind if i had kids and they "tried" it, but i fly off the hinges if they end up like my firends, but i geuss it depends on how you raise them huh




Saturday, November 7, 2009 22:35 PST

I can tell that your a nice guy, I am a nice girl, sorry if I didnt come off that way. (Im also a sag)word of advice let your friends go to jail next time. addicts use people even if they arnt stealing from you. stop helping them out. They have to suffer consequences. Also stay away from that alchohol! they dont call it the Demon drink for nothing! : -)

Friends?




Sunday, November 8, 2009 5:52 PST

when it interfears with work freinds kids and jail time ya i got a problem with it. my mom was an alcoholic crack head when i was a kid and i swre i wouldnt do that and i havent. i drink now and the but dont do drugs i have to much in stack for that. kids school work. working on builliding a new carrier for myself as well




Sunday, November 8, 2009 7:15 PST

Not judging anyone or what they choose to do.......BUT.......I have honestly seen too many friends and family suffer with depression or a mental illness from smoking marijuana, so from my perspective I wouldn't touch it. I think it does more damage than we think.

Also, knowing how drugs etc affect and damage our aura, I would say that for anyone wanting to develop their spirituality, how can drugs possibly be any good to you? I quit smoking at the beginning of this year (after more than 20 years of smoking) and honestly haven't looked back.

Again, NOT judging.......just my own personal opinion.





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