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Have you ever been in a relationship that seemed so good, but didn’t quite “go the distance?” Why is it you can be in love with someone but not be able to reach “happily ever after” together? The answer is in the stars ... Vedic Astrology, the system of India, breaks a relationship down into fifteen steps -- explaining why some aspects of love can be so right, while others can be oh-so-wrong. To learn about the critical steps, read on ...
Obstacles (known as “Vedha Kuta”): When you have the connection of “obstacles," you face constant challenges together. As you overcome one problem, another arises. Other lovers, family dramas, money dilemmas, geographic distance and health issues seem to plague your love at every turn, getting in the way of your ability to make a full life together. When “obstacles” aren’t present, you’ll be able to overcome any outside interference and join lives.
Misfortune (known as “Rajju Kuta”): When you have the connection of “misfortune,” it’s difficult to relax and enjoy each other. It can show up as a lack of shared goals, confusion and a “one step forward, two steps back” gyration. When you don’t have the connection of misfortune between your stars, you enjoy a far greater chance of a growing connection.
Respect (known as (“Strii Diirgha”): An unbalance of “respect” causes a role-reversal. The woman will feel she’s the one trying to convince the man to be with her. Over time this makes a woman feel unloved and a man feel pressured. With the right balance of respect, you’ll be close and connected. The man will attend to the woman and in turn, she’ll appreciate him.
Excess (known as “Nadi Kuta”): Two people complement one another in love. If you’re the same, you’ll amplify the other’s tendency to feel intensely or over-think, hence the term “excess.” Two emotional types cause drama. Two fiery types get easily annoyed and argue. Two intellectual types evaluate every move they make together. If you and a lover are of different energies, you won’t trigger each other in these ways and will feel more secure and at ease.
Temperament (known as “Gana Kuta”): We all have an inborn point of view that has a great deal to do with our values, beliefs, attitudes and ways of being. Unlike with “excess,” it’s best if you both are of the same temperament. This allows you to have the same sensibilities and tastes, and truly GET each other. When you aren’t, however, you may that you just don’t understand each other.
Instinctive Compatibility (known as “Yoni Kuta”): Under our “social masks,” true selves come out in times of crisis, stress or during more intense aspects of physical intimacy. When you and another are compatible in this way, you’ll bond through intense experiences and stay connected during difficulties. Harmonious couples have a profound sexual connection unlike couples disruptive to one another.
Magnetic Attraction (“Vasya”): Every once in a while, two people seem like true soul mates. A couple can really be in love without this extra celestial blessing, but if this is also present, they’ll have a very hard time resisting one another or staying apart if they should break up. If you have this with a lover, then you’d better be compatible in other ways or you’ll both feel over the Moon, but miserable at the same time.
Sense of Purpose (known as “Mahendra”): Couples with a “sense of purpose” feel a deep feeling of meaning that grows with time. Even with differences, they’ll share a bond that draws them back. Like “magnetic attraction,” it can work against a couple, making them feel they have to work things out even when they shouldn’t ... If their compatibility is otherwise good, they get the feeling we all long for.
Ideally, two people come together as equals and share a healthy balance of power. When you have the same level of force as your mate, this naturally occurs. When one has more “assertive pressure” however, this will be a problem. The more forceful one will always get their way, and the other will constantly give in. Over time the less assertive partner will become increasingly resentful, and will usually leave, citing this as the reason why.
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Carol Allen is a Vedic astrologer and relationship coach who has spent almost 20 years helping women achieve romantic fulfillment with men. Carol has combined her training in Eastern philosophy with the most cutting-edge relationship research to offer a unique blend of practical, effective "real-world" advice with the best "out of this world" wisdom you need to make the most of your romantic destiny.