You might feel like you're sitting on the sidelines in relationship matters for the first three weeks of the month. The Sun is slinking through Scorpio and your secretive 12th House then, which tends to temper your outgoing personality. Instead of looking for the spotlight, you will probably appreciate quiet time alone or with one undemanding individual.
Adding too this, mental Mercury is retrograde from November 6-26, making this an ideal period to step back and review your relationship history. Reconnecting with someone from the past is possible, but it's also a time to straighten out misunderstandings. This time out of the spotlight can allow you to recognize the patterns that have held you back, and those that have brought you joy will help you make better decisions in the future.
You get a very sweet period around November 8, when loving Venus forms a favorable trine to your expansive ruling planet Jupiter. This is a delicious alignment that attracts pleasure and increases self-confidence. Secrets may surface with the New Moon in your 12th House on November 13. Facing the truth about your own needs and desires isn't always easy, but can free you finally start moving ahead in pursuit of the love that you want.
You get a fresh wave of enthusiasm with the Sun's entry into your optimistic sign on November 21. However, a solar square with squishy Neptune the same day could fill you with fantasies. That's fine if you're just seeking inspiration, but you could get caught in an illusion that you can't turn into reality.