September begins with the Sun in your secretive 12th House of Privacy, which may keep you out of the spotlight. Private time alone or with one or two discreet people can be surprisingly fulfilling. Until the Sun moves into your sign on September 22, you can benefit by taking a more long distance view of your relationship life.
There is a burst of romantic energy that comes from Venus on September 6, as your sociable ruling planet is blasting into bold Leo and your 11th House of Groups. That's fun when you're with friends or engaged in a cause or project that's important for you. It's easy to make a big impression or to be excited by a creative and confident individual. Yet the playfulness that's apparent on the surface doesn't eliminate your need for some solitude as well.
The key, then, is that you get to play and participate when you want to, but not because others are pushing you. If you do acquiesce early in the month, you're unlikely to do so as of September 20. That's when brainy Mercury in your sign slams into hard aspects with disruptive Uranus and Pluto. Sudden changes of mind could engender mistrust, yet the purpose of these transits is to open your eyes to look at relationships from a radically different point of view.
The Sun's entry into Libra on September 22 increases confidence and puts you in the driver's seat, yet solar aspects to Uranus and Pluto on September 29 spur restlessness that's likely to shake up partnerships.