November opens with the Sun in your 11th House of Groups, which makes friends and organizations key elements in your personal life. The Scorpio New Moon there on November 3 is joined by your serious ruling planet Saturn, which may require discussions about expectations and commitments with others to put you both on the same page.
It's possible you will realize that you've gone as far as you can with someone and that the relationship must be changed or it might be over. Think this through very carefully with verbal Mercury in Scorpio stuck in reverse until November 10. This is the last part of its retrograde period, during which misunderstandings are common. Even a pal could lead you astray if she or he hasn't heard your message clearly.
On November 11, passionate Mars aligns favorably with Saturn to focus your efforts and make you more effective in settling goals and boundaries. More light appears on the horizon with the indulgent Taurus Full Moon on November 17, which lands in your 5th House of Romance. This illuminating event may help you realize where others slow you down.
Take a break from your obligations to indulge yourself with pleasure. Feeding your senses will warm your heart and make you more desirable to others. A secret to tapping into this delicious energy is to avoid working hard at having a good time. Learning to receive without feeling obligated to give something back is not being lazy, it's about accepting your natural right to have love and joy.