You might feel like you're on the outside looking in during the first three weeks of November. The secretive Scorpio Sun is in your 12th House of Privacy, where you may need more time alone to rest, relax and reflect. Even if you're with someone, you might find your mind drifting away as you're more likely to seek peace and quiet than stimulating conversation.
This is not an ideal time to push your personal agenda, as it's very easy to get off-track in pursuit of your goals. Still, the company of an undemanding individual who enjoys getting away from it all with you could fulfill your needs. This distancing period is meant to provide you with perspective that's hard to find when you're with people. In fact, active Mars is in hard-working Virgo and your 10th House of Career all month, which can fill most of your time with professional obligations.
On November 21, however, the Sun enters your adventurous sign and your 1st House of Personality. This is a strong "go" signal for initiating connections with others. Your enthusiasm should be rising, enabling you to feel more comfortable expressing your feelings and making it easier to attract attention. Nevertheless, with verbal Mercury in subtle Scorpio all month it's appropriate to be discreet in what you say.
Amorous Venus opposes your expansive ruling planet Jupiter on November 28, making it a day of excess and indulgence. Taking a break for some midweek play will be rewarding as long as you don't overspend, overdo or over-estimate someone.