You seem to be quite concerned this November with how much your sweetheart is or isn't supporting your career goals. You might also take a good look at whether or not your relationship is helping you grow in other ways or if it is holding you back.
People are at different levels, and it's OK to be with someone who isn't always aligned to yours. Being slightly above or slightly lower on the scale is fine as this signals a relationship where one partner has the opportunity to level up and the other has a chance to serve as a catalyst towards that type of evolution. In your case, however, you might really struggle this month with trying to determine just how far apart the two of you are on the scale of life development potential. If you come to the realization that you love someone but they will never truly be able to meet you anywhere near your level of spiritual, intellectual, emotional, or life purpose goals, then this could be a month of significant transition for you -- and your romantic status.