If your view of relationships is less than optimistic when the month begins, expect a change as of October 7. The constriction or doubt you're feeling may be due to Venus' presence in skeptical Scorpio until then. This intense, sometimes secretive, Water sign is less open and experimental than you are. Jealousy and controlling individuals are not the kinds of things that turn you on.
One positive effect of this transit, though, is that you may take a deeper look at your desires and recognize what needs to be changed to fulfill them. If you're not happy in your current situation, altering your attitude and behavior are powerful steps toward improving it.
Restlessness rules on October 3, when the Sun opposes your electrifying ruling planet, Uranus. This transit is useful for breaking patterns, but it's not very conducive to remaining calm. Venus blasts into fiery Sagittarius on October 7, putting more punch into your social life. Enthusiastic friends and colleagues contribute to a sense of adventure with their bold ideas and innovative activities. Opening your mind and heart to having fun or contributing to a cause brings pleasure that makes you more desirable.
Venus' favorable alignment with Uranus on October 16 should feel like a breath of fresh air. Discovering new ways to play and to dress comes when you liberate yourself from old rules. Even a stagnant relationship could become exciting again when you explore unfamiliar territory. Being different is what makes you special, so don't forget that when you are free and with someone who is willing to take chances, that there are no limits to love.