Playing it cool in relationships makes sense until June 27. The reason is that the love planet Venus is in super sensitive Cancer and your 12th House of Obscurity until then. Whether you choose to slow down your social life and want to avoid the spotlight or whether you're just having more difficulty getting attention, it's smart to be more subtle and indirect in matters of the heart.
Private conversations, long quiet walks and spending time in out of the way places gives you space to consider your options and to let partnership issues settle. Confidentiality is a must because sharing intimate information about someone else can undermine trust in a partnership. What does give you energy, though, are friends and organizations where you are just one of the group instead of feeling the need to be the leader of the pack.
The Sun's conjunction with generous Jupiter on June 19 broadens your perspective and can bless you with the company of a mentally stimulating person. It's a great day to speak your truth in a light-hearted way that can be heard by others. Yet it's still not time to make any dramatic personal moves without further reflection.
Intellectual Mercury turns backward in your 12th House on June 26 where it will spend the next three weeks spurring relationship memories. Recognizing areas where you can change helps you to cash in on the increasing personal opportunities where you gain confidence and attention that begins when Venus enters Leo on the following day.