Aquarius Sexual Compatibility: Inventive and Unemotional In Bed
See which signs are most sexually compatible with Aquarius
By Tarot.com Staff
While Aquarians like you are known for being independent and experimental, loving variety in all ares of life, you are surprisingly loyal in sexual relationships. You want to find the one person who will let you be as open and rebellious in bed as you want -- anything goes! But although you make a forward-thinking lover, you might want to work on your ability to be romantic ... some partners need an emotional connection in bed, and that's where your detached persona sometimes lets them down.
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Aquarius and Aries
Having sex with Aries may seem like taking candy from a baby, so there could be moments here where you’re not really sure you want to go through with it. Don’t feel guilty, though. Aries LOVES to have sex! On top of that, Aries never does anything without being thoroughly engaged -- at least for the moment. Indeed, keeping Aries’ attention on the business at hand could present you with a challenge. As usual, hearing those words will only make you more intent on going through with your plans. This hot-as-they-come lover will appeal to you because there will be so little fanfare. But, once you get into bed, you may have to work at calming Aries down so you can get together on things like pace and timing. Aries goes head-first into every experience in a physical way, much as you do in the realm of ideas. You’ll have to love being with Aries for that reason alone, but it may take time for the two of you to get one another to meet up both physically and mentally.
In a long-term relationship, you and Aries could have a lot of things to discuss -- but what you’ll find is that Aries isn’t much for discussions. This fiery person has an intense temper, and it will flare. The good news is, though, it will subside as quickly as it rose up. You’ll decide pretty quickly whether and how you want to deal with Aries, but at times you will definitely test one another’s patience. Your karmic lesson will be that everything in life can’t be solved merely by thinking. Sometimes, Aries will teach you, it pays to just go with your gut.
Aquarius and Taurus
You might never think it, but this materialistic person with a reputation for being extra-stubborn can be rather pleasant for you to be with. The tie between the two of you comes from the dynamic you engage in as you approach life. When you start something, be it a project or an overture toward someone you want to go to bed with, you stick with it! You and Taurus will always respect this about one another, and will also stick with your determination to turn one another on -- over and over again.
Taurus is a very sensual partner, and you’ll enjoy being together in lots of ways. The two of you will enjoy music that appeals to the subconscious and the senses, such as jazz or techno -- and you’ll have your own little rituals for doing everything, from the way you take your clothes off to whether and when you’re going to take a shower together. If you and Taurus decide to delve into a deeper, long-term relationship, you’ll find it to be mutually rewarding. While Taurus clues you in on making your way through the material world, you can open Taurus’ horizons to some ways of making the world a better place. Together, you could make a totally fantastic team. Your karmic lesson here is to remember that even if you don’t want to get caught up in the material world, it helps to have someone who can help you navigate your way through the sometimes stormy seas of money and finance.
Aquarius and Gemini
You and your fellow Air sign will hit it off right away, because there will be so many things for you to talk about. Here is someone who, like you, lives in the life of the mind. Whether you’re conversing over drinks or discussing the merits of various supplements in the health food store, you and Gemini will enjoy exchanging your ideas, even after you notice the sexual electricity going off between you. Be careful, though, that you don’t wind up being all talk and no action. Just in case you’re wondering, a good conversation really is almost as appealing as sex to most Geminis! There will have to be a point where you get the talking to stop, and grabbing Gemini to administer one of your fantastic kisses will probably do the trick.
While in bed, the two of you will have to go out of your way to become more sensually attuned. Because you’re so focused on what’s going on inside your heads, it can be a challenge to turn your attention to the more erogenous parts of your body. Because Gemini has sensitive spots on the hands and arms, you may be able to make headway by starting there. If you and Gemini hit it off well enough to continue your relationship beyond the fun of the first few times, you may have to address a few issues. The best part about being together, though, will be the fact that neither of you likes to be tied down, but you can still remain curious enough to keep coming back for more. Your karmic lesson will be that sharing the body can be even more fun than a meeting of the minds.
Aquarius and Cancer
You and sensitive Cancer will have many things to work out, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun in bed! The first thing you might want to do, though, is make sure Cancer understands where you are in terms of the relationship at all times. You should also know that having sex is a very emotional thing to almost all Cancer people, and once connected with you this way, things can go a lot further than you might have planned. Cancer’s fertile imagination, plus a deep desire to merge on several levels, is responsible for this. You will have to admit that being together with this very sensuous individual is a fabulous experience, though. You’ll adore having every last one of your desires taken care of before you even express them.
In turn, Cancer will expect you to be a VERY thoughtful partner! So, if you do decide to keep this relationship going, you’re going to both have to do a lot of communicating. It isn’t easy for you to delve into the deep and unpredictable waters of emotion, but if you’re going to do it, Cancer is one of the best people you can do it with. You’ll get a sample of a range of moods you never would have thought possible. There may be a few storms in your relationship, to be sure, but think of the possibilities for fabulous make-up sex! Your karmic lesson from Cancer will be that getting together with someone who lives in a whole other world can be enlightening in ways you never would have imagined.
Aquarius and Leo
Although you might never suspect it, dynamic, dashing Leo is just your type! This sparkling individual, with enough charm to light up several rooms at once, is exactly the kind of person you yearn for. While you don’t like to be the one who’s in the spotlight, being with someone who seeks it out can be quite a thrill. Leo will take quite a shine to you, as your cool exterior serves as a way to draw the noble Lion into the challenge of making you scream in ecstasy. Leo will melt in your arms, and then take definitive steps toward making sure you have a sexual experience you’ll never forget! Once that’s done, Leo will also try to get you to step up to provided the kind of regal service this self-appreciative person insists upon! It won’t hurt to lavish gifts -- from flowers and fine food to massages and extra time on top -- on your Leo, and you’ll gladly do it. You’ll know that keeping your fabulous feline beast happy is a great way to ensure your own sexual happiness.
In terms of long-term harmony, you and equally independent Leo will enjoy discussing how you can work together to bring out the best in the people you know. Leo will teach you how to draw out excellence in others on an individual basis, while you show Leo how to organize and take action in your community. Even though you never might have suspected, life with Leo can be tremendously satisfying. Your karmic lesson from Leo is that you can think about yourself and shine with your own light, and use this as a way to lead them to new levels of excellence.
Aquarius and Virgo
Virgo might not seem to be so exciting at first, but when you start to talk you’ll see that there’s a lot there to like. Virgo will listen for hours to your ideas, and add some suggestions for how you can do things a little better. This will go on in bed as well as on the outside. Don’t be offended. It’s not that Virgo doesn’t think you’re very, very cool! Virgo, just like you, sees the greatness in what you say, and wants to help you get your message to as many people as possible! This alone will be enough to turn you on, and the lucky thing is your attention and respect will turn on dear, sweet Virgo!
Once in bed, you’ll be amazed at Virgo’s abilities! Because Virgo really does love to be of service, none of your needs will go unanswered. Virgo’s support will feel like a breath of fresh air in a world where most people are out for what they can get from you. In turn, Virgo really won’t ask much, but if you are not attentive enough Virgo is not the type to sit around and pine for you. Instead, Virgo is likely to move on, and you will find that you have worn out your welcome -- and the possibility for all that nice sex. To keep this relationship going, simply treat Virgo with respect and honor the commitments you make. From arriving at a date on time to remembering Virgo’s birthday, the little things will not escape Virgo’s notice. Your karmic lesson from Virgo is that there are other people who are willing to help you with your goals -- all you need to do is give them the respect and love they deserve.
Aquarius and Libra
You and fair Libra will be instantly attracted to one another. This beautiful creature is not only a treat to behold from the outside -- the quality of the conversation and Libra’s ability to keep up with your far-reaching ideas will be a total turn-on, too. Before you go off to save the world, though, you may want to spend some time enjoying some carnal pleasures. Libra certainly is well-schooled at this! Don’t be fooled by all the romantic overtures that Libra will solicit from you, but don’t neglect to follow through on it, either. Libra needs to feel like there’s at least a little courting going on, so going out to dinner first is probably a good idea. This comes from the fact that both you and Libra need to have some kind of mental activity going on at all times. As much as you might enjoy the physical ways you express your sexual attraction, you know how much you need to still have something to play with in the back of your mind! Libra will need to imagine the things you have said to each other and what will be said the next time you talk about your sexual encounter.
A long-term relationship with Libra could work out quite nicely for you, as long as you’re willing to indulge in some of these romantic little games. But, if you’re looking for someone who’ll be content to have an independent life while you’re not around, Libra’s need to have someone else around probably won’t let that happen. Your karmic lesson from Libra is that if you want to be involved in a true relationship, you’re going to have to give as well as take.
Aquarius and Scorpio
Scorpio is the epitome of sexuality, and you’ll probably pick that up the moment your eyes meet. The temptation will be to jump on one another’s bones right away, and who’s to say that sometimes it isn’t best to just go with the moment? If you can’t help yourselves, it will still be OK -- but don’t miss the fabulous things that could happen along the road of seduction. Scorpio is super-smart, so don’t think for a minute that one move this calculating creature makes isn’t orchestrated for the purpose of getting you into bed. This can be rather amusing, of course, and very flattering! Once you and Scorpio stop playing games, though, you will be done for. Although you’re cool on the outside, it’s going to be hard to hide how you feel when Scorpio gets hold of you! This brilliant person, also out to find excellence wherever possible, will see you as a magnificent jewel.
If any problems crop up between you, though, they’ll involve Scorpio’s possessive nature. You might like the things Scorpio does to you when you’re together, but you’re not about to pay for it with your personal freedom. If you can communicate effectively and get Scorpio to come out into the open, you stand a chance of making this work in the long-term. It should be clear, though, that you won’t be able to change one another! That’s all right -- you can have a whole lot of fun just trying to make sure all your body parts work the way they’re supposed to! Your karmic lesson from Scorpio is that, even you, oh wise one, can be mesmerized.
Aquarius and Sagittarius
Fun-loving Sagittarius doesn’t have any ulterior motives, or designs on tying you down. In fact, once you discuss this rapid-fire individual’s intense schedule, you’re likely to find it’s going to be hard enough to pin down a time when you can get together for coffee. This is the kind of person you can genuinely like, and may even pursue more than normal. Sagittarius’ intellectual nature, profound sense of humor, and ability to pierce through all the muck to get to the core of what’s right and wrong will make your heart beat a little faster. Once you get to bed, you’ll find there’s plenty to like there as well. Here is someone who is unafraid to show that there is an animalistic side to all of us. Sagittarius will moan, groan, and writhe in ways that make you just as crazy!
Sagittarius will be attracted to you, too, but you’re going to have to work hard at selling yourself. Sadge could mistake your detached way of looking at emotion for aloofness or apathy. Going to great lengths to show you care -- even taking your Sagittarius to a favorite beach on Mozambique -- will help. Sagittarius will always give you a chance to prove yourself! In the long term, the two of you can get along quite well. You’ll adore Sagittarius’ ability to have an individual life that prevents the kind of clinginess you dislike, and Sagittarius will respect your achievements. Your karmic lesson from Sagittarius will be that if you want to keep your lover’s attention, you will have to prove yourself -- and show some of the emotion you might prefer to hide.
Aquarius and Capricorn
You won’t recognize Capricorn when you get this seemingly stodgy person into a sexual situation. While you think you’re open to just about any kind of opinion or preference another person might have, Capricorn might test even your open-mindedness! For one thing, the two of you will both try to command control of the situation. Although you are both traditionally ruled by the same planet, that stony orb does happen to be Saturn. It is difficult for either of you to admit that there could possibly be another person qualified to take the lead over you. One way you could settle this would be to get it all over with by going to bed.
While you are going there for the purpose of sharing yourself with another person out of the goodness of your heart, Capricorn has a whole other attitude toward sex! The crafty Goat, fond of scaling the heights of success, goes down as deeply when it comes to getting off! Capricorn might actually get you feeling as though you’re being taken advantage of -- but you won’t mind. In the outside world, there will be plenty of things for you to discuss. If you can work it out, this can be a perfect exchange, where Capricorn helps you keep one eye on your own interests, while you teach Capricorn the beauty of giving to others. Your karmic lesson here is that there are reasons why people have different and diverse roles. It pays to respect and honor them.
Aquarius and Aquarius
Finding your zodiac twin will be a lot of fun, at least for a little while. You and your fellow Aquarius will have many things to discuss, and may even compete to see whose quirks are the most interesting and unusual. Once in bed, the two of you can count on enjoying the experience of what you would characterize as a sexual bond without ties. You and your Aquarius friend, surely, will understand the need you each have for personal freedom, and you’ll go crazy trying to show new and interesting ways of getting one another off. You’ll admire each other’s sexual skills, and appreciate the cool and detached attitude that just allows you to indulge and enjoy without feeling obligation.
Outside of bed, though, things may not go so smoothly. To make this relationship last, the two of you are going to have to do a lot of listening and strive to find the common ground that you share. Because, Aquarius, you are a strong believer in freedom for all -- as long as everyone happens to agree with you! If you and your Aquarian partner have differences of opinion, it will take a lot of tolerance for you to be able to compromise or reconcile. But, if you can find ways to work together, the two of you will make a team that almost no one will be able to break apart! The karmic lesson from Aquarius could be that freedom is relative, and true tolerance is accepting people for who they are as much as for what they believe.
Aquarius and Pisces
Pisces may not seem like your ideal lover, but if you follow a few basic rules, you can have some fun. This ultra-sensitive soul might seem super-needy and possessive, but that’s not always the case. In many ways, Pisces can seem to be nearly as cool and detached as you are. The key here is to communicate your intentions. Surely after talking to Pisces you’ll develop the ability to see this person really is as nice as they seem. You won’t even have to explain things such as your desire to move slowly toward commitment, as Pisces will favor slow going over jumping in with mind, body, and soul as well. You see, Pisces has a dual way of being -- one part is willing to try new things, while the other is reluctant to stay in any one place for too long. Don’t get confused, but do keep talking so you both know where you are with the relationship. There’s no doubt that time in bed with Pisces can be more than satisfying. You might feel as though you have been completely enclosed by a love that transcends all your personal faults and foibles.
In the long term, you might be surprised how easy it is to be loved by someone who puts the focus on your positive points. Pisces’ karmic lesson for you is that there are others who are capable of sharing your visionary perspective. Together you can broaden and deepen your views of the world -- and do at least twice as much truly good work.