Libra Sexual Compatibility: Easygoing and Flirtatious in Bed
See which signs are most sexually compatible with Libra
By Tarot.com Staff
It can be difficult for others to know if you are really interested in a sexual relationship, Libra. You flirt with everyone! Librans are constantly attached, since you use relationships as just another way to find balance in your life. But you can be sweet, romantic, and giving in bed. In fact, of all the signs, you are most likely to consistently give and receive satisfaction -- keeping you constantly in demand in the dating pool.
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Libra and Aries
If you’re looking for someone who will really chase you to the ends of the earth -- and everybody knows you are -- Aries is your perfect match. Aries’ strong will and desire for conquest will be a very big turn on! You won’t have to do much to grab Aries’ interest, either. Pretty much any indication that you have the slightest interest in going to bed will be met with the kind of childlike enthusiasm you haven’t seen since junior high. You’ll also get a chance to do the mating dance you love so much, but you’d better move fast! Aries will come at you fast and furiously, and isn’t beyond doing something truly Cro-magnon that may make you believe you’ve been clubbed on the head and dragged away! The great thing about this is that you’ll love it. No matter what the gender combination might be here, the two of you are literally made for each other.
You will force this somewhat overly direct person to be more demure, while Aries will bring out that little beast that lies within your dazzling beauty. You’ll know exactly what to do when you get in bed, and will also know exactly how to keep Aries coming after you again and again. Your psycho-social relationship might seem like an odd match to outside observers, but little do they know how wonderful it feels to find traits in another that you’ve wanted to have for yourself all your life. The karmic lesson Aries has for you is all about coming out and saying what you mean -- and getting over your anger as soon as you’ve talked about it.
Libra and Taurus
Libra and Taurus will feel a certain affinity and comfort right away, because you share the planet Venus as the ruler of your signs. While you represent the daylight side of this sultry planet, embodying beauty, balance, and good taste, Taurus displays Venus’ earthy side. Possessive and addicted to luxury -- yet adorable in some strange way -- Taurus will definitely find a way into your heart. Taurus is easy to seduce. Someone who enjoys pleasure so very much is a pushover, especially for someone like you, who makes an art form out of being sexually appealing. In bed, Taurus will be romantic, but could use some prodding. It isn’t that this practical person can’t get a little creative, but you will have to work at providing a lot of inspiration.
Once Taurus people find a formula, they usually stick to it; and this could possibly cause your sex life to go into a rut fairly early in the game. To avoid this, you can be the one to make things more playful. Make Taurus look for you as though you’re buried treasure, from one room in the house to another. Or, you can try the sexy underwear and chocolates route. You won’t mind living out every last one of your sexual fantasies, and Taurus will enjoy anything you do that stimulates at least one of the senses! In a long-term relationship, you’re going to have to try hard to either live with Taurus’ desire to avoid change or to try to get your bull-headed lover to live with your need for new things. Your karmic lesson here is to realize that being practical can sometimes be just as satisfying as living out elaborate stories that exist only in your imagination.
Libra and Gemini
You and Gemini will find lots to like about one another. For one thing, Gemini will think you’re a whole lot of fun, and when you’re with this talkative partner, you will seem to be electrified. Gemini has a way of getting you to look around and think about people and things you may not have experienced directly. Gemini’s curiosity often pushes this seemingly fearless person to go out and find experiences that you might only sit around and wonder about. Meanwhile, you have a knowledge of the finer things in life that makes Gemini only want to learn more -- about the things you know, as well as you.
Seducing a Gemini takes a quick and firm hand, because you have to make sure you don’t lose your quarry before the attention span expires. Once you’re in bed, you might also have to work at making the transition from verbal to nonverbal communication. The way to do this is to put on some kind of a show. Do a crazy, sexy strip-tease or simply kiss Gemini into a state of speechlessness. When you achieve this, pat yourself on the back, then dive into the joys of loving a Gemini. If you haven’t got Gemini quiet on the first try, just give up and start talking dirty. That might finally do it! Gemini will always keep a friendly tone to your sexual relationship, especially with you. That’s why you don’t have to think this will be "only" a passionate connection. Your karmic lesson is, when you really want someone, you have to go out and grab them.
Libra and Cancer
You and Cancer will get a long a lot better than you might think at first glance, Libra. This sensitive person who acts more on emotion than logic might not seem like someone you’d like, but give it a try and you’ll be surprised with what you find. Cancer shares something with you that you find in very few other people. Like you, Cancer is quite centered on pleasing others. This gentle, loving soul will pamper you by knowing what it is that you want before you even have to ask for it. This happens while you’re on a date, but even better, it’s exactly what goes on while you’re in bed. Having sex with a Cancer can feel like a re-birthing experience, in that the kind of love that is being shared is a containing energy -- much like a womb.
Although you’ll enjoy being enveloped by someone who seems to intuit your every need, before long you’re going to want some of that element that’s so precious to you ... AIR! Cancer holds on, and needs to be told when it is time to let go. It might be hard for you to come out and tell Cancer when you need space, and this can be a problem because when you don’t express your needs, you tend to run off. Although Cancer complains a whole bunch and acts fragile and needy, in truth this tough-shelled individual can take more straight talk than it might seem. A long-term relationship between the two of you can be very soothing to you both, as long as you are comfortable enough to establish your boundaries and keep them healthy. Your karmic lesson from Cancer is that emotions often can be gratifying, and indulging in them doesn’t make you a bad person.
Libra and Leo
You’re gorgeous, and Leo is convinced they’re the most beautiful person in the universe. What can be tough about this match? Well, a few things. For one, Leo is not going to give chase the way that you like your partner to. This is because Leo wants to be the one that is pursued as much as you do! Obviously, if the two of you decide that you want to have sex, one of you is going to have to give in. You are probably more likely to do this than Leo, so give into that before you even get started.
The good news is that being with a Leo is going to be very rewarding. This passionate, affectionate person is going to turn you on in more ways than you thought possible. The feeling of total satisfaction is going to be mutual, too. So, before long, Leo WILL be chasing you down, hungry for more of the adoration you showed when you were at the height of passion. This mutual admiration can seep out into the world of long-term relationship, too. The two of you have a lot to talk about, and will enjoy going places together. Let Leo take care of you, because this strong and huge-hearted person has much to give. This generous streak seems to get hotter when you heap on the attention. As long as you can keep this going, the two of you can be quite happily and successfully tied down to one another. But, if you’re not willing to stroke this admittedly needy ego almost constantly, the novelty will wear off quickly. The karmic lesson here is that you may not be, as you’ve always thought, the only one who insists on being the fairest one of all.
Libra and Virgo
You and fastidious Virgo will scrutinize one another before you even begin to talk. You’ll wonder whether this obviously selective individual is going to make you jump through a dozen hoops before you finally get to bed, and Virgo will wonder how long it took you to put yourself together to look that good. This pristine-seeming sign’s reputation for being particular is well-earned, so it’s appropriate to be flattered when you earn Virgo’s attention. Virgo is not about to chase you around, though, so it’s going to be hard to engage this one in a passive-aggressive game. Virgo will read you like a book, and then tell you where and when you need to add some edits to your personality. This isn’t really criticism -- it’s just Virgo’s way of trying to show you how you can be an even better person.
Luckily, in bed Virgo won’t be that talkative. Virgo’s mission in life is to be of service to others, and this is how taking care of your sexual needs is going to be approached. You will want to reciprocate, and Virgo has several areas of the body that respond well to your touch. It’s important that you get tacit permission, even if it’s nonverbal, before going in there, though, because Virgo isn’t a great lover of surprises! A long-term relationship between you and Virgo could be a great way for the two of you to find comfort and caring, but you will have to be diligent about thinking about Virgo if you want to keep this self-sufficient person around. In fact, the karmic lesson Virgo will teach you is there’s always room for improvement, and it’s worth it to become the best person you can be.
Libra and Libra
It isn’t the easiest thing for you and another Libra to figure out you’re into one another -- but once you do, it can definitely be a good time. The whole thing hinges on your ability to take turns, but first one of you will have to take the initiative. A Libra’s come-on will always be subtle, as you well know, so be sure you’re looking for it before it comes. It can be as simple as a compliment on your hair style or as forward as a sexy embrace and passionate kiss after your first dance together.
In bed, your fellow Libra will need as much attention as you do, so be conscious of this. You may be able to talk about this right away, and then get into a pattern where you can take turns giving one another the kind of pleasure you both crave. You know your most sensitive area is around your lower back, so focus on that area of your partner’s body, too -- and don’t forget to make all those little romantic gestures you know you love so much. In a long-term relationship, the biggest problem you’ll have as a couple will probably be coming to a decision. You might need to take turns here, as well. As long as you’re surrounded by the right amount of beautiful things to see, touch, and taste, the two of you will ultimately be quite content. The karmic lesson you’ll learn here is to avoid falling into a pattern of procrastination and to get proactive about considering -- and fulfilling -- the needs of your partner.
Libra and Scorpio
There’s no question that the absolutely domineering behavior of a mysterious Scorpio can be intimidating, but if you take on the abandon of a skydiver and just jump, you’ll love the kind of landing this sensitive, exacting individual has to offer you as a romantic partner. Scorpio is ultra-emotional, once you get past that touchy and exacting veneer, that is! The quickest way to get into a Scorpio’s head -- and bed -- is to project the idea that you wouldn’t mind having sex! Scorpio is always looking to unite in the most primitive and gratifying way possible, and will more than willingly go after you with the ardor you like to see coming from your pursuers. Scorpio people love to think they have "won" you, and you like the feeling of being grabbed up by someone who finds it impossible to resist you.
In bed, as well, there is no one more adept at sending you to the magic land of bliss than this seemingly psychic person. Before you’ve even indicated what feels good or what you might like to try, Scorpio will figure it out. This could also allow your out-of-bed relationship to work a little better. You’re famous for hoping people will guess at what you’re thinking and feeling, and Scorpio will figure you out. This won’t come automatically, though. You’re going to have to work very hard at keeping your Scorpio sex partner around. Go out of your way to provide love, affection -- and an admission that Scorpio is the one who holds all the power in the relationship, and that will be a good first step. Scorpio’s karmic lesson for you is that by abandoning fear and delving more deeply, you can reach new and magnificent levels of experience and rapture.
Libra and Sagittarius
A happy-go-lucky Sagittarius will make you smile the first time you lock eyes. Here is someone who is totally up-front, innocent, and very happy to do whatever pleases you. The other reason Sagittarius will win you over is the hunting spirit you can’t help but notice. All you have to do is make the slightest gesture that hints that you might run away, and Sagittarius will be ready to start the chase! This, of course, is an instant turn-on to you, and you’ll love letting this energetic person pursue you to the ends of the earth.
Once in bed, though, you might begin to wonder if you’re in a little bit over your head. Sagittarius is capable of delving right to the root of all pleasure, and will do this with or without your permission. Easily capable of going from a chatty conversation to a nonverbal display of passion that could literally put you on the floor, Sagittarius is anything but subtle. You may or may not be impressed with the way Sagittarius does it, but you will definitely be satisfied when you go to bed with this lovingly animalistic person! If you can still move after all this, remember that Sagittarius loves to be touched, kissed, and caressed. A long-term relationship with Sagittarius will lead you to a world of adventure that you’ll appreciate -- most of the time. Much will depend on your ability to help Sagittarius refine the manners and sensibilities that, at least at first, resemble those one might find at a hot dog eating contest! For a karmic lesson, your Sagittarian lover has a big, if simple, question for you: If it feels good, why wouldn’t you do it?
Libra and Capricorn
This distinguished-looking, smooth-talking prospect will win you over at first glance, but you should know that Capricorn has some attributes that don’t show through that smooth veneer. The first thing you might want to tell your Capricorn is that you need your lovers to treat you gently. Don’t worry -- Capricorn will get all the preliminaries right! Your suave suitor, whether male or female, will know just how to pursue you, ensuring you don’t get anything less than the best -- whether it’s flowers, candy, tickets to the game, or a candlelit, romantic dinner in "that" restaurant no one else seems to be able to get into come hell or high water.
In bed, though, you may find that Capricorn abandons any pretense of dignity! Instead of that perfectly mannered, almost detached date you were just talking to, once Capricorn strips down for action, you’ll meet a sex monster! This can be ever so pleasant, if you’re ready for a bit of a rough or somewhat unusual time. However, if you’re unsure about how to begin to satisfy Capricorn’s insatiable appetite, there could be some problems. This wild child will morph right back into someone you’d gladly introduce to our grandma, as soon as those designer jeans or the gray flannel suit gets back on that sexy bod. You and Capricorn, once you get used to each other, could have a very comfortable long-term relationship. The karmic lesson here is, what looks boring on the outside could blow your mind (and other body parts) in some delightfully unexpected ways.
Libra and Aquarius
You must know that you and Aquarius can be good friends no matter what, because you both have that airy nature that will always operate under the predictable rules of logic and common sense. When it comes to getting sexy, though, you’re going to have to do quite a dance to get Aquarius in the mood. Get your dream lover into an atmosphere that speaks to sensuality, though, and you’ll get lots more romance and passion than you might think. Don’t expect a traditional romance, though. Aquarius will always go out of the way to present you with a totally unique way of expressing any kind of amorous interest. Aquarius can easily be seduced by appealing to this magnificent mind. Listen intently to the several plans Aquarius has for saving the world, then move in for the kill. A loving look or a very direct touch or kiss will get the message across.
Once in bed, you and Aquarius will do beautiful things for one another. This otherwise very intellectual lover might get downright silly, if you can both set a playful mood when you’re making love. You might have to give up some of your fairy tale plot lines when you encounter Aquarius, but the two of you could have a highly successful long-term relationship. You both live enough in your minds to be able to talk through any kind of difficulty. Even more important, you will find a lot to share -- a love of the world and ways of making it more beautiful, whether artistically, politically, or ecologically. Your karmic lesson from Aquarius is that going beyond childlike fantasies about romance can lead you to satisfying experiences in a new and fascinating, grown-up world.
Libra and Pisces
Pisces is an even more ardent dreamer than you are, so expect a maximum amount of romance here -- as long as you can get something started. If you want Pisces to pay attention to you, all you have to do is talk. Here is the greatest listener in the world -- even if every last word doesn’t get retained in that rather crowded memory! This ultra-sensitive soul will also be able to tell what you’re up to right away, so there won’t be a long courtship before the two of you wind up in the sack.
Pisces will take your breath away with a romantic flair and an ability to make love that uncovers both of your souls. Pisces will want to make eye contact, yet seem to be worlds away at the same time. This is a person who is willing to give over everything -- from mind to heart to spirit -- to you for safe-keeping. It’s going to be hard to hide your feelings here, whether they’re the same or not. You won’t be able to lie to Pisces, either -- less because this trusting soul will be able to tell if you’re speaking truth or not, and more due to the guilt trip you’ll go on should you hurt this sensitive lover. Pisces is the most childlike person you’ll ever meet. Going off on that little fantasy trip can be most rewarding for an incurable romantic like you. Your prospects for the long-term are better than average, but you’ll have to work hard at making sure you communicate and remain on the same page. Whether it’s one night or a lifetime, though, Pisces will teach you an important karmic lesson. No matter how much you think you can love somebody -- you can always try harder to show it more.