Scorpio Sexual Compatibility: Obsessive and Intuitive in Bed
See which signs are most sexually compatible with Scorpio
Scorpios are known to be the sexy dynamos of the zodiac! So when you are ready to go to bed, you will find many willing partners. The catch? You may have trouble getting past the physical relationship -- with your difficulties opening up and trusting others, it can be a challenge to find a long-term partner. That said, your intensity and passion will have most people ignoring the warning signs and just enjoying everything you have to offer.
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Scorpio and Aries
Being master of the sexual universe isn’t easy, but you manage. Meeting Aries is like running against the flow of a buffalo stampede. Getting close is like touching a flame. It will be so very attractive, yet also contain overwhelming energy. To put this fire to its best use, you must do something that comes very naturally to you -- control it. You don’t have to seduce Aries, because the mere mention of sex will get Aries all riled up. Sound like you? Well, you do share the planet Mars as the ruler of your signs. Although Aries can be loud and disruptive, you’re far more powerful. The key is your subtlety. Aries loves to hunt you down, so keep pretending to flee! Then, once you’re ready to get caught, you can be the one who feasts on your prey in all its raw, sexual power.
There is a rub, in case you were wondering. Unless the Aries you mate with is particularly evolved, you might quickly lose patience with this childlike soul. Aries will immediately sense that you hold the answers to life’s great mysteries -- especially the ones that have to do with sex -- and will try to drain every last one of them out of you. To you, Aries’ raw power is interesting, but not deep enough to fully satisfy -- unless you succeed in taming and teaching this wild child how to get down the business of taking care of YOU. No matter how you wind up feeling about Aries, you will still get an important karmic lesson: that living in the moment every once in awhile can be a lot of fun, and that you really are the master of the sexual universe.
Scorpio and Taurus
Just when you thought you had all of humanity figured out is probably the time the universe will arrange for you to meet Taurus the Bull. This classically conservative yet indescribably attractive partner will definitely show you what they mean when people say you’ve met your match. Indeed, here is someone who answers your need for a partner that feels pleasure and sensuality as deeply as you do, yet will resist every attempt you make to establish control. The dirty little secret about you, Scorpio, is that you don’t really enjoy being the one who runs every relationship. Still, it’s hard not to wind up dominating your partner when one is as capable as you are. In this case it’s going to be a huge relief for you to meet someone you can respect.
The two of you are natural partners of the "opposites attract" variety. While Pluto and Mars are your planetary rulers, Venus is Taurus’. No matter your gender, this power of attraction will make it difficult to avoid going to bed together. Taurus will respond to all the techniques you can throw out there, and you’ll delight in all of the little touches Taurus adds to your lovemaking routine. The only thing missing in your love life might be the element of surprise. Because the two of you like to know what you can expect at every turn, you might easily get caught in a repetitious routine. If you make looking for variety a joint project, though, you’ll make an unbeatable team -- and hands-down winners for any sexual marathon. The karmic lesson from Taurus is: you don’t have to be the only sexual master of the universe.
Scorpio and Gemini
There are times when you want to be with someone who seems like a challenge to pin down, and when those moments arrive, Gemini is your perfect partner. This chatty, fast-thinking lover will carry on a conversation that will make your head spin -- and may even become soporific, if you let it go on for too long. The trick here will be to entice Gemini into a situation where you can get sexy without making it seem as though you’re trying to overwhelm or capture this hard-to-get-a-hold-of individual. Gemini people will not like any attempts that you make to control or otherwise restrict their freedom. Even the act of being in a room with just the two of you and a closed door has to be "sold" to this one. Don’t forget, Gemini also has probably heard those stories about being taken in by a Scorpio lover, and fears the worst: being kidnapped by someone who plays Pluto, god of the Underworld, to Gemini’s fair Persephone.
This challenge, however you perceive it, will only serve to turn you on even more. That means one thing -- you have to get this lover! The first obstacle will be to get Gemini over the fear of being captured. Suggest going to neutral ground -- or at least for the first time, not to your bed. Gemini will be a fine lover, once you can switch the communication from all talk to the action you’re after. Gemini always quivers when asked about making commitments, so it will take time before a long-term relationship can develop. Take it one step at a time with Gemini, and one day you’ll get there. Your karmic lesson here is that love -- or even sex -- doesn’t have to be an "all or nothing" arrangement.
Scorpio and Cancer
With two sets of claws, hard shells, and hearts that melt at the prospect of sex -- and, oh, love and romance as well -- you and Cancer will make good bedfellows. This emotionally-driven person will relate to you easily, and for someone so sensitive, be far less intimidated by you than most others are. Despite a reputation for being steadfastly traditional, Cancer can be a pretty easy catch. You will have to know, though, that being in bed is about more than "just sex" to the domestically-oriented Crab. Even if it’s clear that your liaison will be little more than a one-night stand, Cancer will still do everything possible to consume as much of you as possible, in heart and soul as well as in body.
Making love to Cancer will feel quite magical. Neither of you needs to talk about much -- you use your watery instincts, and know what to do to please one another sensually. If you get into a more-than-casual relationship, though, you’ll need to have some direct conversations about what you expect from one another. Cancer is often content to pretend "as if," and before you know it, a list of expectations a mile long will be tacitly laid at your feet. If you start to play games with Cancer, this tender soul will curl up into a ball, go under that shell, and wait until the time is right to strike back at you with a guilt trip you won’t believe! As long as you keep those communication channels open, though, you can expect to have a long and happy time together. Cancer’s karmic lesson for you is: getting involved on the heart level takes way more technique than getting each other off in bed.
Scorpio and Leo
The proud Lion thinks that no one is more clever, attractive, or charming -- but then, Leo hasn’t yet met you! There’s no question that this dynamic person will attract you right away, but you won’t fall for the bravado or the drama that Leo will often put on. In turn, Leo will be able to stand up to you, and at least appear to be resisting the hold that you will slowly place on this hopeless, helpless romantic. You’ll enjoy at least the pretense of a chase, and the sense of struggle will only make the sex more interesting.
To keep Leo coming back, be sure to heap on the kind of praise this only apparently egotistical person needs to receive in order to feel alive. In turn, you’ll get a very loyal and devoted lover who will strive not only to enjoy what you have to offer, but make sure you have a great time in bed as well. Leo loves it when you remember little details about stories you’ve been told and will always reward you for being thoughtful. The only thing is, especially if you graduate to a more long-term relationship, Leo needs to know that you can be trusted. You are more than sensitive enough to figure out how to prove your loyalty, but just be aware that you are expected to do so. This isn’t a one-time thing, either. Leo will have to come to respect your privacy and yet feel comfortable that there isn’t any double-crossing going on. You can do it! The karmic lesson you’ll learn from the ardent Lion is that having power over others isn’t nearly as fun as having a powerful lover treat you like you’re the center of the universe.
Scorpio and Virgo
Not so fast! Before you dismiss well-ordered Virgo as being too fussy for your tastes, take a second look at this competent, careful, and secretly sexy individual! When you meet Virgo, the fascinating conversation that ensues is likely to involve the body in some way, whether you discuss public health, medical issues, nutrition, or exercise. Virgo is an expert in all of these areas. Virgo can also be incredibly naughty, when enticed by a black-belted sex master such as yourself. The real plus is that Virgo also applies all that knowledge about the human body to making love! Virgo will study you and test out various parts of your body to figure out what makes the bells and whistles go off for you. Meanwhile, you’ll find that Virgo will shriek with delight when you disarm that serious exterior with one of your lethal full-body massages. Be assured that when it comes to knowing what makes the body feel its best, Virgo really does know it all!
If you get involved in a long-term relationship with Virgo, you’ll be amazed at the many new and different positions and techniques Virgo will encourage you to try! Also, as a life partner, what more can you ask for than someone who gets off on doing everything possible to be of service to you? As long as the two of you don’t nag one another to death, as you each try to bring out the best in your partner, this can be a pretty decent deal for you. The karmic lesson from this impeccable lover involves that old adage about never judging a book by its cover. Fondle the pages and take all of Virgo in.
Scorpio and Libra
Beautiful, gracious Libra looks like such a tasty dish, you’ll have a really hard time resisting taking a nibble when this flirtatious sort throws the book of seduction at you. This hopeless romantic, however, might not be as driven by sex as you are. With such an affinity for the Air element, Libra needs a lot of mental stimulation -- way more than you do. "Take your lover out to dinner first" is only the beginning as far as Libra’s book of rules is concerned. Libra will want to hear how you could never have another lover because the two of you make such a perfect couple.
Eventually, your Mars nature will become an irresistible force, and Venus-ruled Libras will have to give into that urge to merge. Libra taps on Venus’ daytime side, which is all about aesthetic beauty, manners, appearance, and physical attributes. Chances are you’re going to want to leave the lights on for this one -- but you might also have a hard time getting Libra to go down and dirty with you. You might enjoy the thrill of pursuit once or twice, but when you get into a long-term arrangement, the differences in your basic natures will need to be reconciled. Libra will have to learn to succumb to animal urges, and you’ll have to get accustomed to more external and non-sexual ways of expressing your affection. If you can accomplish this, Libra will put you on the pedestal you know you deserve. Your karmic message might be to raise your head above other people’s belt lines long enough to notice the things of beauty that surround you.
Scorpio and Scorpio
Wow. The two of you could generate enough sexual electricity to fuel the great work of Dr. Frankenstein. Although there may be some competition and posing when you first encounter one another, if you’re equally amenable, it won’t take long for you to get to bed. A nod, a wink, and a solicitous suggestion, and you can take it from there. After all, what would YOU do if someone suggested you go off somewhere to get naked? When you do have sex, you will be totally satisfied. The complete contentment you achieve when you’re together will make you wonder why other couples who are both of the same sign have so much trouble getting along.
You, Scorpio, exist so far above the expectations of most people that you may only ever be happy with someone who shares your ultra-high standards for competence and excellence. This person will know exactly what to do to get you off, not only physically but also in a soulful, spiritual way. When you don’t have to keep trying to get someone to understand you or figure out that you’re not trying to hurt them, everything gets a whole lot easier. Your long-term relationship has a very good chance of survival -- more than many other combinations. However, the two of you should go out of your way to make friends with people who are born under different signs, just so you can thank your lucky stars that you found each other! The karmic lesson here is that loving yourself is the best experience of all, and loving another Scorpio is pretty darn close.
Scorpio and Sagittarius
Sagittarius will attract you instantly, especially in the physical sense. This athletic, eager individual has a curiosity that’s bound to make you a big draw, too. Sagittarius will tell you all about what it’s like to be a great adventurer, whether this person’s travels are actual or merely experienced through reading, film, or other studies. Listen eagerly, and don’t worry about raising Sagittarius’ suspicions, because this perpetually young innocent always sees the best in everybody! Getting to bed will be pretty easy, too. All you’ll have to do is suggest it -- make it sort of a fun experiment -- and you’ll find out right away if Sagittarius is into doing it with you.
Once you’re in bed, though, you might have more on your hands than you bargained for! Sagittarius’ purely physical -- and very energetic -- way of making love is bound to test your physical stamina. Think about riding a bucking bronco, and you’ll get the picture. This could be quite enjoyable, but also somewhat tiring. There is always some chance that Sagittarius will get beyond the level of creating enough friction to make you (yes, even you!) beg for a warm towel and reach a spiritual union. Sagittarius is refined Fire and has the capacity to evolve to the state of soul-level connections, and this might be something you explore in your long-term relationship. Outside of bed, you may find Sagittarius’ tendency to roam somewhat alienating, but you can learn to live with it. Your karmic lesson from this insatiably fun-loving person is that the best sex happens when it’s impossible to control and contrive your partner’s every gyration.
Scorpio and Capricorn
This is another match that will knock your socks off when you least suspect it. When you hear about this hard-working person, you may be tempted to look the other way, but don’t. Capricorn’s prim exterior and all-work-and-no-play demeanor can be very deceiving. Many a perfectly-tailored business suit has been removed from many a Goat lover to reveal an underside that’s steamier than you might imagine. Capricorn could make at least 90% of your sexual fantasies come true. As it turns out, this earthy person isn’t the least bit afraid of getting down and dirty. This person, who works like crazy, can get a little nutso though, especially when a horn-dog like you is going to get naked too! In fact, Capricorn could get you so excited, you could actually find yourself totally satisfied and exhausted, yet begging for more. Capricorn, like you, isn’t much for the dance of seduction, but when it comes to the actual sex act, nobody does it with more relish!
It’s a good thing that the two of you also have a good chance of making a long-term relationship last. Capricorn is ambitious like you are, and also capable of reaching the goals that you would define as excellence. The competitive streak could not only make a formidable team in business or politics -- you could burn a hole in any bed you lay in together. Your karmic lesson from Capricorn is there’s no need to conceal what you really want when you have a partner who’s literally willing to try anything -- multiple times.
Scorpio and Aquarius
The aloof exterior of Aquarius might make you think this is a tough nut to crack, but that’s not necessarily the case. You might be surprised to find, despite the many stories you’ll be told, that Aquarius’ brave boldness will encourage this intelligent being to seek all kinds of sexual adventures! Your sexy nature is sure to draw more than one Aquarius into your life, and indeed, the two of you will feel an instant affinity. You are both Fixed in nature, meaning that you know what you like, and once you get it you’re not about to let go of it without a fight. This is what makes the two of you so good in bed!
Aquarius will enjoy experimenting with new ways of getting you excited, and you’ll get off on sending this intellect-proud person to new levels of physical ecstasy. Aquarius’ sensual spots might be found around the ankles. Don’t be shy about kissing and caressing that area -- remember, you’re trying to impress someone whose motto is "The weirder, the better!" You may need to get Aquarius to find some of the more traditional areas on your body -- and to stop thinking and start making love! You and Aquarius can definitely find many areas of agreement, and you respect one another enough to form a lasting alliance. Whether you officially become a couple or not, you can always count on Aquarius to be able to have great sex with you. If you do stay together, you can count on having someone with whom you can have an agreement that involves accepting and celebrating one another’s quirks. Your karmic lesson from Aquarius is that you can love someone once in awhile without falling into patterns of possession and manipulation.
Scorpio and Pisces
The watery world of Pisces will seem like home to you, so you’ll feel automatically drawn to this person who’s almost as mysterious as you are. Pisces will also have a natural comfort with you, so you won’t have to play any games to prove that you’re not as scary as your reputation might suggest. Getting Pisces into bed is a little bit of a challenge, because like the Fish that represents this sign, this person likes to know there’s always a possibility of slipping out of your grip and getting away. Of course, your sexy magnetism will probably inspire this spiritual being to swim right into your wake.
Once you get together, you won’t have to use too many words. You will each instinctively know how to bring one another pleasure. You can also count on Pisces giving you total respect. Pisces will, in fact, be in awe of you because you have a much easier time dealing with the concrete world. The bad part of this, possibly, is that Pisces could easily become dependent on you. If you don’t mind taking care of the needs of someone who often has trouble keeping a normal workload and family responsibilities together, you’ll be OK. But, in a long-term relationship, you may grow weary of carrying your weight as well as someone else’s. If you’re willing to accept Pisces unconditional love, however, what you could have on your hands is an offer that’s hard to refuse. Your karmic lesson is that some people are able to see beyond the ordinary, and to them, even total fantasy can be their reality.