Taurus Sexual Compatibility: Slow and Sensual in Bed
See which signs are most sexually compatible with Taurus
By Tarot.com Staff
Taurus is a very sensual sign, which means sex can be one of the most important aspects of a relationship to you. You prefer to experience intimacy with all five senses, so don't be afraid to try out everything from feathers to food. Emotionally strong, you will always prefer a partner that has hidden depths and can connect with you on every level -- from intellectual to spiritual. Additionally, any unpredictability or insecurity in your relationship will always be a big turn-off.
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Taurus and Aries
It’s easy for most people to be intimidated by the fast-and-furious pace at which Aries attacks life. When it comes to sex and passion, your best bet here is to let your animal instincts run wild. While you’re a happy gatherer of sensual experiences, Aries is direct about getting the things that make sex so appealing. Part of what this fiery individual is looking for is the experience of pure, explosive passion. The problem might be that Aries has difficulty waiting and very rarely stops to take the time to make sure you’re enjoying yourself.
The best way to correct this is to teach your always-in-a-rush partner about the beauty of the slow buildup. Taking Aries right to the edge before allowing your fiery friend to release all that raw sexual energy will only make the magic moment more spectacular for you both. The trick will be to fight for dominance so you can set the pace. Although it’s not easy, you know you’re the one who’s got the staying power here. This exchange truly could begin to take on a close resemblance to taming a savage beast, but you’ll love every minute of it! In the long-term, the two of you might not be able to stick together 100% of the time, but you can negotiate a way to pursue separate interests so you can still enjoy large blocks of time together. Your karmic lesson is that there’s no reason to be afraid or too protective, because when all is said and done, happiness is rarely measured by money and possessions alone.
Taurus and Taurus
So you’ve met your match? The problems might start when you try to figure out who is going to get things started. Although you’re definitely one of the most sensually-driven signs of the zodiac, you’re very slow to make the first move. This is because you want to know that your partner thinks you’re appealing, and you like to know that your advances will be welcomed and reciprocated. The amount of fretting and worrying you do about being loved will probably turn out to be just a waste of time.
When the two of you do finally get together, set aside a lot of time on your schedule. You’ll want to languish in one another’s arms, lapping up every last bit of pleasure from the endless possibilities of erotic pleasure you can muster. This will be a wonderful thing, but after awhile, even the two of you might get bored. The feeling of being with someone who’s just like you might not be so appealing after you realize there aren’t as many exciting or original ideas for you to either nix or suck up and get used to. A regular routine can quickly become a rut, and you may no longer be so inspired when you’re doing the same things all the time. The karmic lesson of being with another Taurus is needing to have something or someone to resist in order to bring out your true passion and spirit.
Taurus and Gemini
Having sex with a Gemini can be interesting, but don’t count on being the one who gets all the satisfaction. Gemini will often be more talk than action, so you might find yourself having to set quite an elaborate trap to get this one in your lair. Gemini’s reputation as the zodiac’s chatterbox is well-deserved! You’ll enjoy listening for awhile, but eventually you’ll probably have to take matters into your own hands. Show off your collection of life-enhancing electronics, and Gemini will start to swoon. A demonstration of how the TV can be adjusted to just the right angle from your bed could get this flitting creature in the right location. Once you get horizontal, you’ll definitely want to kiss your partner on the mouth and do everything you can to keep that tongue from talking ... at least until you have thoroughly introduced the rest of the pleasures of nonverbal communication.
Remember that in order to please your Gemini partner, you’re going to have to do something that’s stimulating to the mind. Memorizing a few facts about the number of nerves in certain zones of the body might be a big help. Showing Gemini how they work will definitely score extra points! Gemini will teach you how to adapt to shifting circumstances and how to schmooze other people so you can get what you want in business. However, in bed, you’ll learn the karmic lesson that it pays to speak up and ask for what you want as well.
Taurus and Cancer
You’ll have the easiest time in the world getting cozy with this gentle, compassionate soul. Cancer will know almost instantly what it takes to turn you on, and if you’re enjoying a mutual attraction, you won’t have to worry about getting some satisfaction. It’s important to know, though, that Cancer is in this for way more than just a roll in the hay. This Moon-ruled individual acts on behalf of the heart, and nothing is real to Cancer unless it’s felt on a deep emotional level. That’s why you want to make things clear before you even get to the part about getting naked. Cancer plays for keeps, and will not be happy if you decide, after having a kick of the tires, that this isn’t the person for you.
Once Cancer goes to bed with you, it will be very hard to shake this crab’s grip on at least one of your appendages. If you can come to the part where you trust that this moody individual isn’t just trying to screw you out of your money, this could work. However, you should be aware that Cancer is motivated by making people a part of a family that is being created through the use of a rather active fantasy life. Money and ambition are only a means for supporting said family unit. If you do build a long-term liaison with Cancer, no one can offer you a more sheltered haven or shower you with more love. Your karmic lesson could be that having family can mean way more than just living with "dependents."
Taurus and Leo
You might not think this flashy person is your type, but a closer look could truly change your mind. Leo is all about bringing out the best in people, so chances are that one of your first conversations will be a discussion of all your apparent talents. When you become convinced it’s time to show Leo what else you can do, the best way to pull off the seduction is with a heaping helping of flattery. Leo loves to think that you admire everything you see and hear. That’s why you’ll have so much fun sharing a passionate lovemaking exchange with this vibrant individual.
There may be times when, after finding a particularly sensational spot, your partner is reacting to at least twice the amount of stimulation you’re handing out. As it happens, that could indeed be the case. In fact, you can always count on the possibility that Leo is thoroughly engaged in the process of self-admiration. Those mirrors on the closet doors -- and possibly the ceilings -- aren’t there for nothing! Your Leo lover will also want to know how pleased you are with the performance that’s being given in your honor. Short of applauding, you can show your appreciation by being more verbal about your reactions. If your mouth isn’t full of that lavish hair or some other portion of this fabulously pampered body, tell your Leo just how good being together makes you feel. Courage and self-love could be some things that you learn from being with Leo. Your karmic lesson here is, giving the appearance of being fearless can scare off anybody who would try to do you harm.
Taurus and Virgo
The two of you have a similar, practical approach to life, so chances are you’ll hit it off right away. Virgo will be impressed by your charm and your apparent ability to take dirt and turn it into gold. Nonetheless, don’t count on luring Virgo into your bed with silk sheets and a custom-inflated mattress. Virgo is looking for someone who is honest, trustworthy and reliable. Luckily, you can do all of that, too! A long conversation listing your qualifications in these areas could indeed wind up being the shortcut to the bedroom. Once you begin to get romantic, remember that this seemingly frail individual is anything but. To Virgo, life is a continuous process of separating the wheat from the chaff. Before you do anything, ask a battery of questions that will reveal what the particular turn-ons listed out in Virgo’s mind will be easiest for you to execute. You need to know these things, as your actions and behavior are being compared almost constantly to a certain set of expectations.
Virgo can be a very warm and passionate lover, but the thing that will amaze you is the amount of focus that lies behind every erotic gesture. To Virgo, sex is a process of mutual stimulation that should follow a certain course so that both partners can get the gratification they’re after. This gentle, very caring person is motivated by being a source of pleasure and happiness, and will scale walls and leap off any precipice to make you happy. This is a calm, down-to-earth connection that might not satisfy the full range of your passions, but maybe you can be content to get what’s coming to you a little bit at a time. The karmic lesson in this relationship is, it really isn’t practical to think with your heart -- or any other part of the anatomy that isn’t your brain.
Taurus and Libra
The two of you are ruled by the same lovely planet, fair Venus, but although you’re very much the same, you come from two rather different worlds. You like to dig in and get your hands dirty. When you devour a piece of cake, you’re not concerned about how beautiful it is. For Libra, though, all of these things are different. The balance of a form and the clean lines of design are all-important components of the overall visual beauty that pleases Libra so much. This might be one reason why your Libra lover first becomes interested in you, as this aesthetically-inspired person will definitely admire your relaxed, balanced face. You could be as different as night and day, because you are Venus’ nighttime side, the Earth god or goddess who stands naked under the stars, unabashedly eager to engage in sensual pleasure.
As the daytime side of Venus, Libra is very hung up on outer appearances, and you’ll want to make sure that you let your lover know you’ve noticed the things that make them so attractive to you. In bed, you won’t have any trouble relating at all. Although Libra might want to spend time talking things over, it won’t take all that long to get down to business. Once you do, you’ll discover a lover who lives to please. In fact, the single most important thing to Libra is knowing how much you appreciate the efforts being made. You can use your words, but engaging your body and the marvelous sensations it can inspire may be an even better idea. You can study the finer points of etiquette and aesthetic appreciation with Libra -- but better that you let Libra teach you more about the magic of romance. Your karmic lesson is there’s more to getting with somebody than rubbing body parts together.
Taurus and Scorpio
In case you ever wondered what would happen if you met your perfect match, you could find out when you get caught up in the mesmerizing rhythms of Scorpio’s mating dance. This mysterious, usually high-achieving and always VERY sexy person is sure to catch your eye. The sexual overtones of verbal innuendo won’t take long to seduce you. You’ll appeal to Scorpio because you refuse to be beaten into submission without a fight. There probably won’t be much of an issue about who makes the first move or where you’ll decide to first consummate your sexual union. The pure magnetic draw will pull you into Scorpio’s aura, and once that happens, you will both be done for! The tug of war of love will be all that much more exciting because the two of you are just about the only ones who can stand up and hold your side of any discussion or dispute you might initiate. Also, your sensual mastery is the perfect answer to Scorpio’s unrelenting sexuality.
In bed, Scorpio will challenge you to a contest, and you will both vie to prove which of you can be a better lover. If you just keep trying to please one another until you get it perfect -- as Scorpio will insist that you do -- you could keep the passion flowing for quite a long time. In a serious relationship, you and Scorpio will have many disagreements, but neither of you is likely to dominate the relationship. The karmic lesson Scorpio will teach you is that challenging yourself is the fastest way to self-improvement.
Taurus and Sagittarius
Sagittarius has that "aw, shucks" kind of appeal that you’ll find irresistible. You’ll attract this curious, child-like soul with your steady presence and calm, inviting manner. Don’t confuse Sagittarius’ response to your caring tendencies for a desire to be owned, though. Before you even get involved, it would be smart for you to realize that Sagittarius is a free agent. To keep this wandering soul’s attention, you’re going to have to make it clear that you’re willing to grant freedom as well as provide love and a set of sturdy arms as shelter. In bed, Sagittarius will amaze you with an amount of passion that you could find almost impossible to satisfy. It’s not that you don’t have a lot of sexual energy of your own, but Sagittarius’ restlessness makes this person extremely energetic.
Always looking for the next thrill, Sagittarius will challenge you to become more inventive and original in the way you go about making love. This person’s book knowledge will also probably bring some interesting ideas into your relationship, but you may want to put your foot down when you’re asked to use a satin scarf to tie one of your ankles to the light fixture above your bed. To stay together, you’re going to have to both try to focus on one another’s needs, and that won’t always be easy. Sagittarius’ karmic lesson for you will be knowing that when you willingly leave your comfort zone, you can love someone so much you’re willing to let them be free.
Taurus and Capricorn
You and Capricorn have a lot in common, so this is one of those matches that will feel free and natural. You are both practical and have a strong sense of character. Better yet for both of your sex lives, you’re both about as horny as they come! It could be the tie to the Earth element that you share, or it might be that you like to play as hard as you work at accumulating your resources. You have a mutual respect and understanding that allows you to always be friends. In bed, you’ll find Capricorn to be extremely responsive to your overtures. In fact, you may be stunned at some of the suggestions that are made for adding a little spice -- like riding crops and other props -- to your lovemaking. Follow Capricorn along if you want to expand your sensual horizons.
But, if it’s emotional support you’re after, Capricorn might not be able to give you everything you desire. This very serious, success-oriented person isn’t without emotion, but Capricorn doesn’t see the sense in gushing with feeling just for the sake of it. To stick with this partner, you’ll have to believe that you are loved, because you’ll be able to count the times that you’re told that it’s the case on one hand. You can remedy this by keeping some emotionally intense people in your circle of friends, because let’s face face it, giving up sex this good is going to be a struggle! Your karmic lesson from Capricorn is that there’s more than one way to skin a cat, and there’s plenty of sexual potential lurking beyond your safety zone.
Taurus and Aquarius
This is one of those relationships people on the outside might have trouble figuring out, but the truth is, you can stick to one another like glue! Aquarius and you are both Fixed signs, which means that once you start something, you won’t stop working on it until it’s done. It also means that you don’t like the idea of change. All that futuristic, visionary thinking aside, Aquarius is very stubborn about backing down out of an idea or statement, striving to convince everyone that no matter what the facts might be, they don’t prove that Aquarius is wrong. That will definitely apply to choosing to be with you, too.
In bed, Aquarius can be quite a dashing partner. Although they might have this quirky edge that lets you know they consider no human being to be their equal, when you let loose with your pleasure-giving sexual artistry, you won’t hear any complaints. Aquarius’ pride will ensure that things get done that will also please you, so don’t worry about being left behind. This is actually someone you could think about having a long-term relationship with. This humanistic person’s desire to make a difference in the world is sure to rub off on you, and so is a lot of sexual feeling you’ll be ever so glad to have. You can teach Aquarius about how nice it can be to indulge in the pleasures of the flesh, while Aquarius lets you learn the karmic lesson that there’s more to life than the material world.
Taurus and Pisces
You and the imaginative, dreamy Pisces can have a whole lot of fun together. Your strong and steady personality is just one reason why Pisces will fall into your arms. Because Pisces is so capable of seeing the world as one big family from a wildly cosmic perspective, it isn’t easy for this person to keep both feet on the ground. That’s where you can step in, if you want to. You should be warned, however, that if you don’t follow through on your promises, Pisces won’t have an easy time allowing the disappointment to dissipate should things fail to work out between the two of you.
Pisces can take what you might think of as normal emotion and milk it for more drama than you would ever think possible. This is a real plus in bed, though! Pisces’ ability to literally meld minds, bodies, and souls with you is a unique experience you’re sure to appreciate. This eerily sensitive and perceptive person will know what you need and want before you even dare to whisper what it might be. The negatives of this match start with Pisces’ unpredictability and struggle to be on time for anything, and could easily end when Pisces becomes so dependent upon you that it appears this person is incapable of ever becoming self-sufficient. Pisces’ karmic lesson for you is there is more to the world than what you can see, smell, taste, or touch, and it can take you to your own little private version of nirvana.