Virgo Sibling Compatibility: Honest Observer
See how your Virgo astrology traits affect your sibling relationships
By Tarot.com Staff
If you're a sibling with your Sun in Virgo, you were tough but wonderful to grow up alongside. You are a fiercely loyal individual who always has your brother or sister's back. However, you are also an intelligent perfectionist who often challenged your siblings as the shining star of the family. You are very observant and honest, which can sometimes mean having to do the right thing if your siblings are acting out. But you do this because you want to protect them!
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Virgo and Aries
Virgo and Aries are an "Odd Couple" pairing in a way. Although there’s plenty of affection between you, you each have totally different approaches to life. Aries was into active play almost from infancy, while you preferred quiet activities that tested and developed small, rather than gross, motor skills. Speaking of "gross", you will probably use that word often after daredevil Aries (literally) dives into a plate of food or gets covered from head to toe in mud. The arguments between you two will probably center on your vastly different personal styles, but when either of you is challenged from the outside, you’ll rise to defend the family honor. Rivalry won’t be as much of a problem as cohabitation and mutual friends. You have different tastes in clothes, entertainment, and people. Though you may not always be close, you’ll always be there for one another when the chips are down.
Virgo and Taurus
Virgo and Taurus make a good pair, because you’re both very practical in your approaches to life. You are likely to be involved in many of the same activities -- mainly things that have some value in the real world. Taurus will imagine how something can be built to protect and preserve the family’s security, while you will think up ways to provide the tiny details that keep everybody’s needs met. When you fight, it’s likely to be because you feel your aren’t getting enough respect from one another. With mutual praise, you’ll be reminded of what you can offer one another. As you grow, you’ll be eager to share your ideas and successes, like the two best friends you truly are.
Virgo and Gemini
Virgo and Gemini are adaptable types that will have an easy time developing a healthy sibling relationship. Although you have two totally separate ways of expressing yourselves, you’ll almost instantly respect one another’s strengths and talents. Gemini will come up with the ideas, and you’ll refine them so that anyone would know exactly what to do. Gemini is better at communication, while you excel at organization. Working on a project together can teach each of you how to round out your individual skills. Fights might occur when Gemini forgets to keep a promise to you, or when you nitpick too much. As children, you were probably able to settle disputes on your own. You’ll poke fun at one another’s flaws, yet always embrace each other as true blue friends.
Virgo and Cancer
Virgo and Cancer are very much alike, at least in your intentions. You’re both nurturing and loving, and will act as surrogate parents for one another -- but that doesn’t mean it’s all smooth sailing. You are also capable of getting into some nasty battles. For one thing, Cancer’s messiness -- and reluctance to throw things away -- will get on your nerves. Meanwhile, your natural tendency to criticize is bound to hurt Cancer’s feelings sooner or later. As is the case with most clashes, when each of you adopts a little of the other’s way of doing things, compromises can be easily reached. Make sure to point out each other’s favorable attributes -- you both respond well to positive reinforcement. As you grow older, you’ll begin to see the value in one another’s strange ways, and will also have latitude in your relationship to poke fun when you get together.
Virgo and Leo
Virgo and Leo can get along surprisingly well, mainly because of your differences rather than your similarities. When you were children, Leo would play the proud peacock to your quiet ugly duckling, but in time, you both grew up to be attractive AND smart. Leo’s theatrical personality will sometimes get on your nerves, but you are grateful to know what to expect. Leo will probably not appreciate your constant fretting and fussing, but will be grateful when you help tend to details Leo might not ordinarily think about. Despite your apparent meekness, the fights you two get into can become fierce, if only verbal. Leo might need to nurse a bruised ego, while you will need some comforting. However, when all is said and done, you will create a symbiotic relationship that will sustain you throughout their adult lives.
Virgo and Virgo
How perfect can life get? As two exacting Virgos, you’ll analyze how to make things faster, neater, and more efficient. From your earliest years, you two will demonstrate an ability to look at everything and figure out how useful it is to you. Although Virgos have a reputation for being meticulously neat, this isn’t always the case. Sometimes, your perfectionist personalities will just "give up", and your inner slobs will come out! Together, you two are likely to get along quite well, given that you have the same standards for cleanliness. Everyone might have a few laughs when you criticize one another, but it’s nothing serious. You’ll be bosom buddies again in no time.
Virgo and Libra
Virgo and Libra have a relatively easy time finding harmony and keeping it. You really want to be able to help other people, and Libra is more than happy to be helped! If Libra decides to take advantage of you, that could become a problem. However, if there’s a give and take in your relationship, you’ll get along well. You may call out Libra’s bad behavior -- your sibling is usually quite satisfied with things the way they are. You will need to push Libra into living up to his or her responsibilities. When you do fight, you will use the facts, while Libra applies theory. Eventually you’ll compromise, though, because neither of you can endure a conflict for long. This will surely help you stay close well into adulthood.
Virgo and Scorpio
Though Virgo and Scorpio have quite different personalities, you have one important thing in common: you both strive to achieve excellence in everything you do. Scorpio will always be better at the act of creation, but you will inspect and refine whatever you create together, to make sure there are no flaws. Because you two are so intent on getting things right, you can get into heated disputes over the things you do together -- and critical of one another’s individual work. To create harmony and avoid becoming overly preoccupied with perfectionism, each of you should acknowledge how valued and competent the other is. Even as adults, you’ll always remember your childhood bonds, and cherish your shared memories.
Virgo and Sagittarius
Virgo and Sagittarius enjoy each other’s company, even if you don’t do everything together. You will usually focus on quiet activities like puzzles and crafts, while Sagittarius is far more interested in sports and other active games. You will always want to be of service to loved ones and in the world, while Sagittarius will always advocate for what he or she thinks is right. Your shared desire to do noble things will make you good citizens; you might work together on community projects. When you argue, it will usually be over your philosophical differences. Neither of you will be jealous or possessive, but you’ll hold one another to the very highest standards. Remember, you don’t have to be exactly the same in order to be "right." As you grow older it will be easier to understand this, and you will probably retain a very loving relationship.
Virgo and Capricorn
Earthy siblings Virgo and Capricorn have an easy time getting along. Both of you take work very seriously, and this was probably obvious, even early on in your childhoods. You’ll like the same kinds of activities and hobbies. As children, you jumped at the opportunity to start a business, like a lemonade stand or sidewalk bake sale. You two will compliment each other well, as Capricorn sees the big picture, and you make sure none of the small details are missed. If you fight, it might be over Capricorn’s tendency to take over, with or without your permission. As you get older, you two could work together -- or at least discuss your rich professional lives for hours on end.
Virgo and Aquarius
Virgo and Aquarius get along well together, because you don’t get bogged down in emotions. You won’t wish your brother or sister could be different; you happily accept -- and respect -- one another. Regardless of age differences, Aquarius will ultimately take the lead in your relationship. It’s not that you don’t have original thoughts, but your eager-to-serve personality would rather let someone else come up with basic ideas, while you work out the planning and logistics. Aquarius will be more than happy to take on the job of conceptualizing! This will become obvious early in your lives, even when you were playing "let’s pretend" games in your living room. When you fight, you will need a mediator. Try to work out solutions that appeal to both of you, but that are also fair. Don’t let Aquarius push you around too much. That will help you retain a respectful relationship.
Virgo and Pisces
This sibling combination is the "perfect couple." Though you come from opposite sides of the zodiac wheel, you two will have an easy time finding balance and harmony in all that you do. You have a firm grip on reality, while Pisces likes to live in the world of imagination. It was easy to see, even back in your childhood, how you cross-pollinated your ideas and helped one another to become well-rounded. Both of you are sensitive and kindly by nature, and even your criticism will roll off Pisces’s often-oblivious back. Pisces’ creativity will entrance you, and you’ll work together to make your dreams come true. Of course, there will be fights now and then, but you won’t have a hard time resolving them. You’re likely to continue playing well into your adult lives, too.