Just because your lover wants something from you right this minute, you're not going to abide if their request doesn't sit well with you. Your integrity is solid and you're eager to maintain your high standards, even if it's not what the one you love wants from you. However, if you're being stubborn to gain power points in your love relationship, then you're not going get very far. In the end, doing what feels right is a good idea. As is compromise and cooperation.