How to Phrase Your Love Tarot Reading Questions
Learn how to change the course of your romantic future
By Tarot.com Staff
Does it feel like your love compass is broken? You might be single and struggling to find someone you deeply connect with. Maybe you keep ending up in relationships that fizzle out just as soon as they began. If past partnerships have left you feeling more defeated than desired, it's time to turn to the Tarot.
Tarot cards have been used for centuries to help guide people through complex situations in their lives -- and is there anything more complicated than matters of the heart? No matter what issues you're facing, the Tarot will give you the clarity needed to put your love life back on track.
Questions to ask Tarot cards
It's important to know what questions to ask in order to get the most out of your reading. Tarot is all about helping you manifest what you want, so asking things like "What will my partner's name be?" or "Will I meet my soulmate tomorrow?" won't work. Instead, try asking questions that help you connect with your inner self and get to the root of your issue. Here are some examples of questions that work well in a Tarot reading for love:
- What is holding me back from finding love?
- What can I do to attract love?
- What can I learn from my past relationships?
- How can I avoid repeating unhealthy patterns in my relationships?
- How can I heal from the hurt of my previous relationship and move forward?
Here are four ways the Tarot can help the future of YOUR love life:
It shows you what you really want. Sometimes it isn't finding what you want, but knowing what you want that's your biggest challenge. What kind of relationship are you looking for? Who is your ideal partner? You already know the answers in your heart, but you may need a little help so you can finally see them. The Tarot allows you to tap into your intuition and discover what you've already known all along.
It reveals what is preventing you from finding love. True love starts from within. Everyone has insecurities, and we've all been burned by former lovers. These things can create emotional obstacles that hinder you in your quest to find -- and keep -- love. Maybe you've been choosing the same type of partner over and over again, or it could be that you're unknowingly sabotaging potential relationships. The Tarot will shine a spotlight on what you need to do to create positive and lasting love in your life.
It shows you what you're working with. In order to attract your soul mate, you must first recognize all of the unique qualities that you offer to others. The Tarot pinpoints exactly what it is about you that you bring to your relationships. Maybe you're an incredibly dedicated and loyal partner, or perhaps you're a pillar of strength when it's needed most. Like attracts like, and by knowing exactly who you are you will more easily find someone you are truly compatible with.
It allows you to see the truth about your situation. They say that people who are with the wrong person are farther away from finding true love than those who are single. This is why it's important to choose wisely in dating and relationships. Maybe you're on the fence about someone you've just met, or you're not sure if you should continue pursuing a relationship with someone you've been out with a few times. The Tarot gives you the insight needed to decide if you should hit the brakes, or continue moving forward in a specific situation.
We all want love, but finding it isn't always that simple. Stop and think about what it is that you need to know right now. Are you looking for guidance on how to attract the right mate? Do you need advice on how to overcome pain from the past so you can find love again? No matter what questions you may have, the Tarot can provide you with the answers you're looking for.