Virgo Sexual Compatibility: Precise and Tireless in Bed
See which signs are most sexually compatible with Virgo
By Tarot.com Staff
Virgos like you make patient and attentive lovers. This might be frustrating for someone just looking for a quickie, but your overall focus on their preferences and almost scientific knowledge of their pleasure spots makes Virgos sought-after lovers. The trick is letting yourself go enough to enjoy yourself in turn -- not everything has to be neat and perfect. Remember, sometimes sex is more fun when it's new and spontaneous!
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Virgo and Aries
Look out for this hot number! Aries will literally sweep you off your feet before you know what happened. This can be fun if you want to have some fast and furious sex, but you may find yourself muttering before too long something like, "Hey, take me to dinner first!" There’s no question that Aries likes to get right down to business. And you? Well ... let’s just say you like to know who you’re exchanging bodily fluids with.
In bed, Aries can be sexy and passionate, but not very considerate. This could annoy you, unless you take the attitude that you’re going to make it your mission to fix it. You could have fun letting Aries play into your all-knowing parent role. You won’t have to worry about figuring out how to turn this sex-driven person on! Many Aries people walk around in an almost constant state of arousal. But, surprisingly, most of them also know they’re in need of some of the help and direction you’re so glad to provide. In return for your tips on sex techniques and basic table etiquette, Aries will shower you with love. This is the kind of person who can burst into your office and announce that you’re about to be dragged off to some wonderful adventure that’s likely to end with both of you in bed! This is an active, strong person with very little tolerance for things like waiting -- for anything! So, if you’re up for being with someone who will get you out of a rut and respond to and appreciate your grounding influences, Aries could be the one! You’ll get the karmic lesson that sometimes it’s okay to drop all your pretensions and get sexy.
Virgo and Taurus
This practical, reasonable person will appeal to you from the get-go. The two of you have a lot in common and will make friends instantly. Taurus will have the ability to acquire the material goods that you also place a high value on, but will lack your ability to live with less than the maximum level of luxury. There may be some aspects of this person’s preferences that baffle you, such as why one might believe that a solid gold key chain is really necessary!
But when it comes to sex, you might really appreciate Taurus’ penchant for laying on the luxury. Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet of love, and tends to manifest this sensual planet’s earthy side. While you tend to react to the things you see and feel in terms of how you can get information from it, Taurus just does things because they feel good! This will mean that you have to forget a lot of what you think about while you’re having sex, and tap into your instincts. Taurus will respond to just about any way you decide to administer your gentle touch, so don’t worry. In the long term, the two of you will always find it easy to get along, but you might have to make some adjustments to keep your sexual chemistry clicking. As a good karmic lesson, Taurus will teach you everything you do doesn’t have to be thought out to the last detail, and that it’s fine to let yourself have a few treats you may not really need.
Virgo and Gemini
You and the talkative sign of Gemini have a natural affinity for one another. This comes from the fact that you share the planet Mercury as your sign ruler. Gemini is the daytime side of Mercury -- all talk, trick, smoke and mirrors. You, on the other hand, manifest the nighttime energy of this hard-to-pin-down planet. You process everything that comes in through your senses and try to put it into a category and develop a way of seeing the order and organization in everything. One thing you’ll like about being with Gemini is that this totally disorganized person needs your help! This could become obvious before you even get to bed, but having sex with Gemini will confirm your suspicions. Gemini is the kind of person who talks the whole time you’re getting the mood set, and you’ll intuit that you’ll have to calm your partner down.
When you finally get to the nonverbal portion of your time together, this can be a very satisfying connection. Your knowledge of the human body and what makes it feel good will surprise Gemini, who probably thought there wasn’t all that much to learn about getting turned on! Gemini will also try to do everything possible to give you some pleasure. You might have to remind yourself, though, to use your words when it comes to letting this partner know what you want. Gemini’s karmic lesson for you is that no matter what the outside appearances are, everyone has something new to show you -- and Gemini’s many observations will be a long-time source of fascination.
Virgo and Cancer
The sensitive, moody, and kind of messy sign of Cancer will appeal to you because you’ll feel as though you’ve found a kindred spirit. The two of you are all about taking care of other people and being of service to those in need. The difference between you is that while you tend to tell people how to do things better for their own good, Cancer dives right in there and does it for the person in need of care. This, of course, could manifest as marvelous action in bed! It probably has been a long time since someone actually has taken the time to make sure you’re enjoying yourself! You, in turn, will know what Cancer needs because you have that uncanny way of knowing what’s good for others. Friction of the unpleasant variety may spark between the two of you if you get stuck in a loop of being unwilling to receive! Cancer will know what you want, and do everything possible to please you ... and will expect you to appreciate what you get.
You will also have to be very careful about hurting Cancer’s delicate feelings with your little hints and suggestions. In a long-term relationship, the two of you could get worn out trying to outdo one another at the art of giving pleasure. For a quick liaison, this could be a fantastic thing! Cancer’s karmic lesson for you is obvious, but you probably need to hear it again. Despite what you might have thought your whole life, it can be just as much fun to receive as it is to give.
Virgo and Leo
This flashy, dashing, and very sexy partner will catch your eye without even trying. There might be a few little flaws here that you’ll notice -- perhaps a loose string on the hem of their pants -- but soon you’ll accept this as a fabulous package wrapped in undeniable style. Don’t even suggest that you and Leo go to bed, because this dynamic person will insist on being the one to get things started. Once you are willingly swept away by the ardent Lion, you’ll find their roar is much less fearsome than the nibble. Like a big teddy bear, Leo will melt into your arms and lap up all the love you have to give.
Although Leo can be a demanding and domineering talker outside of the bedroom, in bed this generous soul is very giving. It might be a matter of pride for Leo to see just how many times you can be taken to the outer reaches of Nirvana! Leo makes a whole lot of noise and can be very voracious -- but you’re no slouch when it comes to getting pleasure! In the long term, you might have to tame this proud person down some, but if you do, you’ll have a love for life. Leo’s karmic lesson for you is that sitting back and watching the scenery is just one way to experience life, and Leo’s way can be much more exciting.
Virgo and Virgo
Meeting another Virgo can be quite rewarding for you both! Not only will you have similar manners, tastes, and ideas, the sexual attraction will be very mutual. When people are as demure as you, it could take some time to actually make a move and head off for some passion and mutual pampering, but you’ll manage. Think of what turns you on -- the idea that someone will take care of you for once -- and let your Virgo know that’s what could happen if you get together between some (impeccably clean) sheets.
In bed, the two of you will automatically know where those hot buttons are. You might initially struggle to see who can do the most for the other, but once you get a rhythm going, you’ll work together like a well-oiled machine! This is, obviously, a pretty good match for a long-term relationship. Unlike many other signs, you don’t compete with one another for attention. In fact, if there is such a thing, the two of you could get too comfortable together. Try not to let your love affair get into a rut. Add variety by going on little getaways, and try not to spend every minute of the day together! Being away for a little while will give you both a chance to see why you should appreciate one another so much. The karmic lesson another Virgo will teach you is that it really is possible to find someone as kind, thoughtful, and (nearly) perfect as you are.
Virgo and Libra
Libra’s attractive exterior will draw you in, if for no other reason than how difficult it is for you to find fault with it. Libra, whether male or female, is almost always beautiful in some way or other. This uncannily intelligent person’s exquisite taste and eye for the aesthetic will also impress you. Although you’ll know there’s a whole lot of desire going on inside that little head, you’ll also find it somewhat challenging to get Libra to respond to your sexual advances. Because Libra is such a pathetically romantic person, even you might not live up to expectations of perfection born from fairy tale fanaticism. You love a challenge, however, and will probably be unable to resist diving right in.
Expect to have a bit of a negotiation before you finally get to bed, though. Libra wants to know that you have earned the kind of romantic devotion this airy sign is capable of giving to that one true love. In bed, Libra’s delicate touch and old-fashioned passion will definitely impress you. Libra will also appreciate the way you jump right in there to cater to every need. Be careful! Someone who spends most of life somewhere between intellect and imagination will be only too happy to allow you to take care of every last physical need. This might not be a great way to sustain a long-term relationship. Make sure you set firm boundaries and state your expectations. Whether you’re together forever or just for one night, Libra will teach you the karmic lesson that taking the time for beauty and romance allows your life to get that much closer to being perfect.
Virgo and Scorpio
Getting close to Scorpio can be a scary thing for you. You might feel like one of the characters in Dorothy’s gang at the moment they see the mythical Wizard of Oz. Scorpio will seem like your guru in many ways. Quiet yet resolute, they’re equipped with genuine confidence that makes them quite intimidating. Don’t worry, though. The fact that you’re always trying to make things better will score points here. Scorpio might have to take you to bed just so you can get to thinking about a whole new level of excellence! Once the sexy Scorpion wraps you in an embrace, you could feel as though your conscious mind has checked out. Scorpio is all about showing you your potential and making you ache until you have become all that you can be!
You will impress Scorpio with your knowledge and your ability to stand your ground. Despite this sign’s reputation for being possessive and manipulative, these people seek those who can stand up and avoid being swallowed up by the sheer ecstasy of having sex with a master. Having a long-term relationship with a Scorpio could be surprisingly successful. While this person showers you with love and devotion (and demands it in return), you can offer hints and suggestions for taking care of little details this busy person doesn’t have the time to tend to. Your karmic lesson from this amazing partner will be that sex really is a form of mysticism and magic.
Virgo and Sagittarius
The cheerful and happy-go-lucky Sagittarian has a lot of appeal, as you’ll find when you first meet. The two of you will get along well because you’re both able to adapt to changing circumstances without letting a little wave capsize your boat. Sagittarius doesn’t need much coaxing to be lured into a lair for the purpose of sexual stimulation. It’s just not all that easy to keep this person in one place. Always allow Sagittarius enough space (sometimes as much as an acre or so) to exercise the wild animal that lives inside. This can be taken figuratively as well as literally, but you should probably remove any fragile valuables in range of the action. Exuberant and excitable, Sagittarius can also be somewhat accident-prone! This could be especially true once this animalistic creature gets a load of what you can do in bed! There is no inner animal here, as this person finds it almost impossible to hide the tendency to abandon all pretense of being human while having sex. You’ll probably get off on the enthusiastic response Sagittarius gives to your advances and techniques.
In the long term, the two of you might have to work hard to live with your respective schedules. While you like to know what you’ll be doing at least a little while in advance, Sagittarius not only always ready for adventure, they’re HOPING there will be some exciting, new place to go every day. Be sure to take your Sagittarius there. Sagittarius’ karmic lesson is that sometimes you can let it all hang out and just trust that everything can still come back to normal.
Virgo and Capricorn
This seemingly reserved person will get you curious right away! Here is someone you perceive as being worthy of the kind of service you like to provide. Although Capricorn will never let you know it, this very preoccupied person does need someone like you to handle the little details. One of them might be scheduling the moment you get to be in bed together. Don’t expect a normal night of passion, or even that your vast knowledge of the human body will be a novelty to this surprisingly sensuous creature. The Goat doesn’t come down from the top rungs of the ladder of success to get down with the rest of us for no good reason. This person who one minute seems like "all work, and no play" can suddenly show you several new ways to have fun. Sharing the element of Earth with you, Capricorn can be extremely down and dirty!
If you’re squeamish about a direct attack or any sort of fetish, you may want to beware. Capricorn takes horny to a whole new place! Of course, you’ll enjoy this -- as long as you can trust that this remains your own little secret. Capricorn is extremely trustworthy, so you can bet that what happens in your bed (or on the kitchen table) will stay there. A long-term relationship with Capricorn can work for you, as long as you don’t fall into the role of constant caretaker. You could also feel put off when Capricorn morphs back into the cold-hearted executive role. Think of it as Superman or Wonder Woman flying off to fight crime and kick butt. Capricorn’s karmic lesson is to let yourself enjoy every last bit of sensation you can get from good sex.
Virgo and Aquarius
Aquarius has a reputation for being detached and a little eccentric, but once you get to know this lively person, you won’t mind a few quirks. Aquarius always has something interesting to say, and you’ll enjoy listening, even if you’re picking holes in the arguments that are being laid out as though they are absolute truths. You might want to take this relationship to the physical level right away, as it isn’t going to be a natural leap for you to meet at the mental level. To understand Aquarius, you have to appreciate people who not only think outside the box -- they LIVE there!
You’ll see how this applies when you finally get to bed. Aquarius will be most attracted to you if convinced you’re in total agreement, at least about most things. This tendency to create boundaries based on social and political viewpoints is what makes this person such a great visionary. It could be hard to get Aquarius to forget about whether your sheets are organic cotton or not, but if you hit all the right places on Aquarius’ body, even the size of the carbon footprint you’re making will cease to be relevant. You might not see eye to eye very easily with Aquarius, so a long-term relationship may not work for both of you. Whether you decide to bite the bullet and stick in there for the long haul or not, you’ll learn an important karmic lesson. Acceptance is a definite prerequisite for love, and it will always have to go in both directions.
Virgo and Pisces
It might be hard to believe that this dreamy, seemingly helpless person is your perfect match, but it happens to be so! You’ll find out why as soon as you get lost in Pisces’ eyes. While you have a standpoint that’s firmly stuck on solid ground, Pisces lives in a whole other world. In fact, once you get to talking, you might discover that the intersection between Pisces’ world and what most of us consider reality is kind of small. This will call up every bit of your desire to take care of your Fish, though. Likewise, Pisces will fall for you the minute it becomes obvious that you know exactly how to make life bearable for this often misunderstood soul.
You will realize before too long that bringing Pisces into your reality isn’t all that easy, but your meeting one another halfway will lead to an adventure that heals many of your ailments! A trip every once in awhile to the fantasy land that can be experienced in Pisces’ bed is the perfect antidote to your sometimes overly serious approach to life. You won’t even know what happened to you, but getting lost in the world of wonder that is Pisces’ sexual experience will feel really good. Transformed from the first time you come together, you will have a hard time not having a long-term relationship. The Karmic lesson Pisces has to teach you is that the best way to take care of your worries is to sit back and let Pisces love you until you can leave them all behind.