Gemini Sexual Compatibility: Fast-Talking and Adaptable in Bed
See which signs are most sexually compatible with Gemini
By Tarot.com Staff
Gemini is a sign of change, which means frequently changing positions, changing locales, and (for better or worse) changing partners. As a Gemini, you are most attracted to intellect, and in your opinion emotional connections are overrated. So you need a partner who will stimulate your mind and be willing to have chat sessions between the sheets.
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Gemini and Aries
Your attraction to Aries is going to be something that’s hard to put your finger on. Most likely it will stem from this dynamic person’s ability to just come right out and say -- or show -- you what’s needed to make the randy Ram smile. If you want to keep the Ram thinking lusty thoughts about you, try to turn off your tendency to talk too much. Remember, actions speak louder than words, and this partner is all about getting down and into it right away! There might be some time for conversation after you’re done quenching your lust, but in the meantime, you’ll be in for a wild ride. Aries has a "me first" philosophy, and this will mean you have to get assertive about demanding your fair share of the stroking and stoking.
Although this partner can come off as being demanding and domineering, this behavior can also inspire you to stand up and ask for what you want. In fact, the more you kick and scream, the hotter Aries will become, because this warrior-like creature is all about enjoying the thrill of the conquest. Keep that in mind if you decide to try for a long-term relationship. Your here-for-now, might-not-be-there-later behavior can turn out to be a real turn-on. You’ll learn from Aries that sometimes, if you’ll pardon the pun, it pays not to beat around the bush. Instead of dropping hints and only putting one toe in the water at a time, Aries always dives right in. Your karmic lesson is that you get lots more passion when you get close to the fire.
Gemini and Taurus
You and this easygoing sign might not seem to go together all that well, but if you’re willing to slow down your pace, you’ll find that Taurus knows how to extend the pleasure. This steady, luxury-loving partner will introduce you to a world of sensations you may have never taken the time to enjoy. Imagine yourself covered in chocolate fudge or whipped cream, ready to scream with desire as your Taurus lover licks every last inch of you clean. Taurus will expect you to reciprocate, so be sure that you’re paying attention! This comfort-seeker won’t fail to tell you where the erogenous zones lurk, but if you want to surprise your bull-headed babe, whisper in a soft and sultry voice, right inside one ear. Or, you might find a veritable treasure trove of trigger points when you simply rub this sturdy person’s neck.
Taurus is nowhere near as talkative as you are, but will enjoy hearing your stories -- probably even more so after you’re done making love. Savor the silent erotic jungle of sexual delight this sensuous creature can take you to each time that you make love. Your karmic lesson from Taurus is, "Stop to smell the roses." Taurus will smell, see, and feel things on deep and significant levels, and show you that sometimes it’s better when you go way beyond the superficial.
Gemini and Gemini
If you’ll pardon the pun, this is your "Twin," so you’ll have tons of things to talk about and basically the same habits. You won’t have any trouble starting a conversation, but of course you could have problems getting it to move into a nonverbal exchange. One good way to do this might be hitting a club or some other place that’s too noisy for talking, but great for rubbing up against each other. Once you do go to bed, though, the two of you will probably have a long -- but very amicable -- talk about how you like it, which position(s) stimulate you more quickly, and how many times a week you need to have sex. Just stay away from talk about old lovers, because that could put a real damper on the passion, and probably eat up the time you could be spending making love.
You know there is going to be some conversational element. Toy around with talking dirty. If you seem to get a response from that, don’t forget to whisper sweet nothings. You know better than anyone just how much you love to hear how hot you are and how much your partner gets turned on just being so close to you. Once you get back to real life after a night of hot action, you might find that the two of you are equally commitment-phobic. Try to negotiate an arrangement whereby you agree to allowing some openness, if only a little flirting, outside your relationship. Your karmic lesson is that being hard to pin down can make it hard to connect.
Gemini and Cancer
Depending on the positions of some of your other planets, you and this sensitive, emotionally-driven person could have a lot in common. As far as your basic natures go, though, there are many bridges left to be built between you. One difficulty could be how much you both change from day to day. You seem to be of one mind and then of the other, depending on the moment, and that’s easy for you to relate to. Cancer’s changeability, though, is a bit harder to wrap your head around. This Moon-ruled creature is driven by emotion, and is quite moody! You won’t be able to know which of both of your various personalities are going to meet up on any given day. This gives you a lot of the variety you love, but it may not give you the reasonableness you demand.
Cancer is a wonderful lover, so the sex is bound to be one of the plus points you perceive about this relationship. The minus part might be when you see just what is expected of you in terms of commitment and devotion. While Cancer, no matter the gender, will go to great lengths to replace the mother figure in your life, you might never quite feel comfortable about receiving so much from someone else. This is because you will know on an instinctive level that you will be expected to reciprocate, and you’re probably not up for getting that attached to anyone! Ask yourself if you’re on the same page. Your instincts will tell you within ten minutes, but the karmic lesson remains the same: It’s nice to be loved, but it’s nicer when you know you won’t have to give back more than you know you want to or can.
Gemini and Leo
This flashy, dashing partner will be a continuous source of intrigue, and will also be quite a satisfying sexual match! Independence and self-importance will definitely draw you in, because you’ll have to know what this hottie is all about. What you’ll find is a person of substance, and very high standards -- but also vulnerability. This person is so dependent on getting approval that Leo will often overcompensate by overdoing it in the self-esteem department. That means that, if you want to find the shortcut to the Lion’s bed, you must lather on the flattery! Start with the hair, and go down the body from there. Don’t forget to comment on the clothing, and how well that color brings out the sparkles of the eyes and the dimple in the chin. You know how to do this. The sex between you will be well worth the effort.
Leo’s fiery nature fuels a potent fire of passion that you won’t ever regret getting started. With this match, you even get a chance to say a word or two while you’re making love, because you won’t want to forget to tell Leo how wonderful it feels for the two of you to be together. You can also tell Leo where you want more stimulation, or how close you are to getting there, and what will make it even more intense. Leo likes to please, and will give you so much enthusiasm, you’ll want to come (back) again and again. As for that karmic lesson? Getting physical love can help you understand that sex takes on all kinds of fabulous dimensions.
Gemini and Virgo
The two of you have a connection that might not seem very obvious at first. You both like to study things from a distance before you get closer in, and you easily adapt to just about any kind of changing circumstances. Before you get Virgo to bed, though, you’re going to have to pass a few tests. One will be to improve your organizational skills. If you think for a second you’ll get away with forgetting a date like a birthday or anniversary (anything from your wedding to the first time you held hands), forget it. Virgo not only has gathered nearly as much information as you, this meticulous person has it organized and catalogued so that it can be put to good use. Virgo’s desire to serve makes this a particularly appealing partner for you, but you’ll also have to remember that you’ll be expected to give it back now and then.
Virgo is very conscious of physical sensations, and will probably get your erogenous zones all mapped out. In turn, you’ll be expected to have a system that fits Virgo’s specific model of perfection. You can do this, so don’t worry! The only issue will be whether you think it’s worth it. In truth, this is a great person for you to stick with, as you make a terrific team. Your karmic lesson is: knowing is one thing, but putting it to good use leads to way more satisfaction!
Gemini and Libra
Ah! The romantic, attractive, and attention-grabbing Libra is such a tempting target, it’s hard to see how you can resist when this siren, male or female, bursts into song. As a fellow Air sign, Libra will feel like your best friend before you even start your first conversation. You both have so many incisive impressions to share, you might not even notice when the two of you begin to flirt. Mind you, that will probably be about three nanoseconds after your eyes lock. Remember, though, that rather than being in need of multiple sources of stimulation, Libra is all about getting you to engage in the chase. You will be pursued in the most passive-aggressive way you can imagine, so don’t expect to be hit over the head here! Libra’s subtlety will impress you, but you have to watch for the cues. When you get them, go right in.
Although Libra may feign disinterest at first, that’s only because you’re supposed to try harder. This follows right into bed. Libra is like the sleeping prince or princess, waiting to be awakened by your sweet kiss. Once you do this, Libra will open up like a flower. Sex will be a series of beautiful gestures and awesome soul-level connections that you’ll find quite mesmerizing. Difficulties could creep in when you realize that Libra believes very firmly in "happily ever after." If you’re ready to move your stuff into the castle, that could be a nice ending for you. If you want to be a free agent, though, watch out for Libra’s wrath -- you may never see it coming. Your karmic lesson from Libra is, you’ll learn that things are not always what they seem, and that you might not be the cleverest of all, after all.
Gemini and Scorpio
Scorpio might seem downright scary when the two of you first meet, but you’re just too curious to avoid any attempt this masterful person makes to get you into bed. Oh, were you planning to be the one making the conquest? This might happen, but man are you going to have to work at it. Scorpio’s standards are extremely high, and unless you find one that is particularly non-materialistic, you could go through quite a lot of cash while you try to make an impression. Count on being tested very thoroughly both before you get into bed and after you’re halfway to heaven thanks to Scorpio’s instinctive, passionate, and transformative sexual style. There is no question that you’ll love being up close and personal in a physical sense with Scorpio -- but the part outside of the bed might not sit so well with you.
Scorpio is known as a master manipulator, and will do everything possible to get you to march to a certain tune. No one needs to tell you this won’t go down too well with you! You might have some of the most fantastic physical experiences in your life here, but you probably won’t like the rest of what comes in this relationship package. No matter how much or how little time you ultimately decide to spend with Scorpio though, one thing is for sure: Your karmic lesson is to build healthy boundaries and stand your ground -- or else you could get swallowed up by one of the most emotionally seductive characters in the zodiac.
Gemini and Sagittarius
Do you believe in the old adage that says opposites attract? You will after you spend a little bit of time with Sagittarius. This charming, well-informed, enthusiastic partner will enchant you from the start. Although the two of you might have trouble finding time to squeeze your trysts into your crowded schedules, you’ll be able to forgive one another for failing to be on time! Plus, when you get into bed, you’ll find a partner who’s as exciting to talk to and as interesting to touch as you are! The thighs are the hot spots on this athletic, energetic person. A touch or a kiss there will drive your Centaur honey wild!
Sagittarius will be equally interested in you, because despite your differences, the two of you have one really important thing in common: You both value the ability to be together without claiming full ownership of one another. You also like to have lives that are outside your relationship. You are infinitely adaptable, have similar tastes, and will probably need a cleaning company to tidy your place up should you decide to live together! That’s not a big problem -- neither of you will care what the house looks like when you’re busy having such great time inside and outside the bedroom! You’ll adore going on trips together and losing yourselves in one another in a long string of sexy getaways. Your karmic lesson is that getting out there and living is a whole lot more interesting than just sitting around talking about it.
Gemini and Capricorn
Don’t wrinkle your nose! Capricorn really isn’t as stodgy as the outside appearance implies. This prim, well-dressed individual might not seem like it, but Capricorn can take you to school when it comes to exploring the outer edges of sexuality. Earthy and anxious to release all that tension that builds up when a person is running the world, Capricorn has the ability to dig deep into the depths of unconscious desire in order to get down to the business of sexual ecstasy. It’s important to know that if you want to catch Capricorn for a little fun or even a long-term booty call, you must pay attention to the "getting down to business" part. Capricorn does not want to discuss much, nor will this authoritative figure require you to take the lead. Just watch -- you’ll know if and when Capricorn wants you. What you’ll experience once you get there can be totally hedonistic and undeniably fantastic.
You might be amazed at the array of tricks this seemingly conservative and quiet, unassuming person has in that bag that’s handily kept under the bed. From French Ticklers to riding crops to a new position your partner tried out on a recent business trip to Bangkok, just about anything can come into play when Capricorn is on a mission to get off! The cold, dispassionate reputation of Capricorn is probably undeserved. Far from being uncaring, this person will make sure you have everything you need. As long as you’re willing to live on the edge, you can learn your karmic lesson: It’s okay to take a vacation from living in your head so you can get in better touch with your body.
Gemini and Aquarius
You and the airy Water-bearer have a lot to discuss, so chances are your hook-up will arise out of a social relationship or a connection through mutual friends. As you chat away, you might discover that you both like the idea of getting close in a physical way to others, but don’t much want to be forced into an emotionally binding situation. It isn’t that you’re incapable of intimacy -- you’re just very selective about who you get all that close to. Aquarius will always respect your individuality on most fronts, so that part will be easy.
Getting into bed with Aquarius will take a little bit of time only because this busy person will often enjoy the exchange of ideas between you more than the actual physical acts you have in mind. This is one of those occasions when you will need to make the first move. Aquarius will get the idea right away, don’t worry! Lucky for you, Aquarians also hold themselves to very high standards, and will be up on any kinds of trendy, if kinky, techniques that might turn you on. This match could feel a little bit like two young kids playing doctor ... at least at first. Once you get used to one another, things could get a little more passionate. Be inventive, though. Believe it or not, this futuristic-thinking partner can also get stuck in a rut from time to time. Your ingenuity will go a long way toward keeping your sex life interesting. Your karmic lesson from Aquarius is that intimacy and detachment are not necessarily mutually exclusive, and you’ll be so happy to have this sexy friend in your life that you may never get bored.
Gemini and Pisces
Pisces is an ultra-sensitive, almost psychic person with a reputation for always having one part of his or her brain engaged in a vivid fantasy world. Although on the surface this might sound like the furthest thing you might find from being attractive, take the time to look a little bit closer. Pisces also has the ability to follow all the things you talk about, and express true interest in knowing more about your continuous adventures and impressions of the world around you. Sexually, the dreamy Fish has the ability to bring you along to some very interesting plateaus of pleasure. It’s never hard to get Pisces to decide it’s time for you to go to bed. The key is eye contact. Pisces is so willing to merge with the universe that the second you lock eyes with one another, you could end up spending hours and hours frolicking in bed.
Although this might not be an overly passionate lover, don’t worry -- Pisces is no "cold fish" either! This deeply emotional, trusting person will give all to you, so be kind! There’s no push for a commitment here, either, as Pisces is just like you in that it’s hard for them to settle on just one person. Although Pisces can be loyal, the decision to stick with you will only be made after the two of you spend enough time together to know you can be depended on. You don’t want to know what dealing with a Pisces who has been abandoned by a treasured lover is like, so don’t do it! Instead, stick around at least long enough to learn the karmic lesson that indulging in imagination gives you even more stuff to think about in and out of bed.