You might presently be more interested in listening than talking when communicating with your lover or a potential love interest. Perhaps you feel like you need to hold your cards a little closer to your chest and not reveal everything that's on your mind. If so, it's probably not because you're playing games -- it's more likely that you've encountered some insecurity you need to shake when it comes to sharing what is felt most deeply in your heart. You may not want to be vulnerable for one reason or another, and that's okay. Sit with your emotions and reflect. Soon enough, you should be back to your usual magnanimous self.